Hi Lulu,

There are multiple people here that used LOA to their advantage to receive their desires. There are many red flags in your post.

You shouldn't call them your ex or they will remain that way.
You shouldn't keep up with the timing or that will expand.
You shouldn't be from a place of being desperate.
You miss him, you have more reason to miss him.

You said that you've let go and feel happy but nothing that you've said reflects a happy person that has let go. You need to put out your desire, be grateful and ready to receive it.  When you're happy, you receive more things to be happy and grateful about it.  The main thing is to behave and feel as though you already happen.  There are many techniques that can change your feelnigs.

big_blue wrote:

Sure.

Using words like 'desperate' means that LOA is not going to work for you, regardless of whatever desire you have. Why? Because you're putting out the emotion to the universe that you don't have this, so it'll keep giving you what you feel. But if you start feeling like you have him, that things are wonderful between you two - and actually feel it, don't fake it - the universe will deliver more of that good feeling that you're emitting.

You have not let go because, again, you're using words that contradict that. You wouldn't be missing him if you already have him, right? Feel it NOW. How would you feel if he was back with you? Happy, ecstatic? You surely wouldn't be miserable, desperate, or missing him.

I have a question .. not trying to hijack this thread.. so I apologize in advance. Blue.. you said "feel it, don't fake it" ... was hoping you could elaborate a little on what you mean.. like, what is the difference ??