I'm in that same boat. Kinda. Everyone so far has only told me to forget about it and let it go but it is extremely hard.

Can someone please give us something that can help. I don't want to give up on this but some things are just too hurtful to forgive and forget.

Yes, agree with what Sanshi Said. You cant forgive and be angry at the same time. If you had a break up recently, its natural to be angry. I went through this immediately after my break up. But with time, that anger disppears, atleast I feel when u TRUELY love someone that love will come up and anger will go. So hang on for sometime, dont jump into thinking 'WHY ia am getting angry, its a natural process and the shift will come through. 

Thank you so much for all the helpful comments! I focused on forgiving him for last couple days. I also realized that every time I was visualizing him coming back, I was keep thinking about how he was going to apologize. So in my mind he was keep talking about what he had done to me over and over. I started to do superman challenge and stopped obsessing with the idea of him apologizing to me. Because I want him not his "sorry".
I actually made a huge progress! I'm going to see him tomorrow!!!
Thank you so much for all the help again!

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