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Who said I was annoyed? I simply stated the path I would choose to take. You know many people like you are the reason why some people slip back into feeling low because here you are, assuming something without knowing anything really! and quite frankly, your post is one I could have most definitely done without. Had I known if there were such high almighties in here I would have never joined. Next time, keep your negativity to yourself. I could have done without your foul sarcasm.
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Look, you made a thread asking "is this worth it"...so surely you must have known you'd get opinions you didn't want to read?
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Isn't that the beauty of being on a forum like this? Miracle there is such an opportunity to grow here. Personally I used to care about what every else thought and it drove my reactions and my emotions. But since following LOA I have really come into my own person and I stand up for myself. You know what you want to do, so do it. Now is your time. Don't worry or get upset about the opinions you didn't connect with, take the advice that aligns with you and now make that your main focus. We can always get what we desire but you can't be defensive or snap back. I understand that maybe you didn't like what someone else posted but like Blue said we just want to help. So start your journey, he isn't your ex that cheated or didn't cheat and you aren't the person who totally let your mind wander and make a bigger deal out of things if he didn't cheat. It's done. Close the book, focus on yourself and start anew. The best version of you will attract an abundance of such amazing things in your life for you to enjoy. So let that be your priority. Your boyfriend isn't going anywhere. I promise you.
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Since you are the creator of your own reality, do you think it's worth it? As someone who has been cheated on in my past relationships personally, I decided it wasn't because I wasn't able to see past what had happened in the relationship so they'd cheat again, it happened twice with one ex. Now I'm not saying this to put you off, I'm actually on good terms with these people nowadays, we talk and I'm over the moon with that.
You can always get your desire, if you feel this person is right for you then let go of the past, being cheated on is absolutely awful but it's done now, start a new story. In this story he isn't your ex, he is your loyal and loving boyfriend who worships the ground you walk on.
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Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
Look, you made a thread asking "is this worth it"...so surely you must have known you'd get opinions you didn't want to read?
This is supposed to be a positive forum.
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All I can suggest is do what feels right for you.