This is an interesting question and I'm afraid can't answer it but I don't think it means much really. I'd like to hear other points of view.

To illustrate - all my friends without exception have good family relationships.  And I have a very wide circle of friends.

However I grew up in a dysfunctional family. My dad was work shy, my mum was resigned to life. They always said they would have nothing and they were correct.

When I was a little girl and somewhat lively and cheeky my dad would smack me hard. Often I was smacked around the head. I was told I was nothing and called swear words. He threatened to kick my ribs in. He once set my hair alight when I was six years old for being naughty. He stole from my piggy bank. I was never allowed to go on school trips as there was never any money.

By Thursday we often couldn't put food on the table because the money had gone and my mum had to scrounge money from my nan so we could eat.

So how come I have so many fabulous friends none of whom have the upbringing and family story I did?

Last edited by PrettyFlamingo (1/14/2017 11:12 am)

Yes I think too that would it be boring if everything was the samé but when we create our reality and we give script every person in our reality so in my life would be every person should be from good family ..Im so confused from all Loa and parallel reality ...