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I understand that trying to be hopeful when your life isn't showing any signs of imporvement is a difficult task. The real question is, did you ever receive anything good in life when you were constantly sad and depressed?
If you did, then please share how your sadness, doubts, and fears brought you positive results in life?
Can you honestly state the number of hours, days, weeks, months etc you were 100% doubt free and truly believed and knew your desire was coming to you?
Ask yourself these questions. It definitely takes work to change thoughts, feelings, and beliefs especially when we aren't seeing it. Trust me, I know the feeling. But, I also know that if I don't change myself then I'm always going to be upset. I don't think anyone wants to be upset or sad.
So please just ask yourself if your desire is worth your time, patience, and faith. If it is, then one day it will manifest. Don't give up!!
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Jupitaria wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
So please just ask yourself if your desire is worth your time, patience, and faith. If it is, then one day it will manifest. Don't give up!!
Thank you for making me remember why I started this journey in the first place!!!!
You're welcome Jupitaria. Did you ask yourself those questions?
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This is awesome and SO true! Everyone should read this. Thanks for posting
Blessedck wrote:
I understand that trying to be hopeful when your life isn't showing any signs of imporvement is a difficult task. The real question is, did you ever receive anything good in life when you were constantly sad and depressed?
If you did, then please share how your sadness, doubts, and fears brought you positive results in life?
Can you honestly state the number of hours, days, weeks, months etc you were 100% doubt free and truly believed and knew your desire was coming to you?
Ask yourself these questions. It definitely takes work to change thoughts, feelings, and beliefs especially when we aren't seeing it. Trust me, I know the feeling. But, I also know that if I don't change myself then I'm always going to be upset. I don't think anyone wants to be upset or sad.
So please just ask yourself if your desire is worth your time, patience, and faith. If it is, then one day it will manifest. Don't give up!!
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Thank you for this ! I needed to hear this !
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I'm glad this is helping everyone! It's tough but I know marrying my guy is worth all this! It has to happen and it will!
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LoveYourself wrote:
Yes he's worth it
I have doubts sometimes, but then I'm only human
I think more positive thoughts about him, than negative thoughts. I visualise him being with me, which can be funny at times
Yesterday, I was trying to clothes shop, but he kept rushing me and wanting to go in the Disney Shop instead lol. In the end I sent him away so I could get on with my clothes shopping in peace
I love to make it funWhen I'm at home, I hear him saying random things that I think he would say such as "I'll have mayo with my dinner" lol.
Loveyourself, you're doing a great job!! He only belongs to you!!
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Jupitaria,
I'm extremely proud of you for being honest with yourself. Your athlete guy is clearly "the one" and I'm 100% sure love for him will attract him to you and you two will live happily ever after! 👨❤️💋👨
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Did everyone ask themselves these questions? I hope you did!