Don't worry about other guys. Focus on what you want and act as if you already have it

I appreciate that @jensherratt but as soon as i start doing that. I don't know how i start obsessing over her and acting as if making makes me feel said knowing that i am blocked everywhere. Then i start thinking it all over again and negativity arises.

We aren't connected on any social media as i said i was even blocked by her but then to i stalked her from my friends profile. Idk whenever i try loa i start obsessing over results and so i start stalking and make mistakes.

TurtlePower wrote:

baba wrote:

We aren't connected on any social media as i said i was even blocked by her but then to i stalked her from my friends profile. Idk whenever i try loa i start obsessing over results and so i start stalking and make mistakes.

 
Hey I was there in that same boat as you. I was so obsessive and would check social media every waking  hour. I even went as far as making a fake account and using it to like her things. All I got out of that is feeling miserable and wanting her even more. You need to have some self restraint here. I forced myself to stop checking in. I did it for myself because I was developing anxiety and it felt terrible because it felt like I was just picking at a wound.

So step one of this all is you need to stop checking on her. You need to tell your friends that they need to stop feeding into your addiction. Yes, it's an addiction! What helped me stop checking in is my friends refused to check in for me. All you are doing by being addicted is projecting to the Universe that there is an absence in your life and you are desperate and needy for it. This only creates more negativity.

What also helped me is that whenever I feel like checking in is to tell myself my affirmations and to remind myself that my manifestation is coming soon.

And honestly, I didn't see much improvement on the situation until I started focusing on myself. I looked into myself and I picked out all the terrible habits and behaviors I knew I had and decided to work on them. I use scripting to help me with that. I write about how I am kind,  understanding and surrounded by love. Would you believe me that I started recognizing all of those things around me?

For my lover and I,  this is our second split so I know from experience now that we weren't doing some things right so by working on myself I'm not only improving myself for our new relationship together but I am also increasing my positive vibrations that I know is needed to make my manifestation get here faster.

I started LOA at the start of this month and it has been an honest struggle because it's so hard to make yourself break out of that habit of thinking negatively. But trust me LOA works! I haven't figured out everything in it since I am still on my journey but what I have told you is my own real results. If you don't know where to start try a little bit of everything and you'll find something that really sticks. Explore other people on YouTube beside Veronica and their take on LOA,  the Universe will help you find the right one. But first,  you need to tell yourself that she is already yours and you need to let go of your negativity.

I wish you the best and if you have other questions I will try my best to advice you and don't forget we are all here for you. Best of luck!

Thanks a lot turtlePower that was the best advice I have manifested so far. And with the situation almost resembling to mine I feel more confident thank you once again. I am truly grateful and appritiate that you took a time to write such in detailed post thank you.