Having nearly cheated with, and been nearly cheated by, some one, I think it goes deeper than this. There are a thousand reasons people do it, and it largely comes down to personal issues.

As such, decide for yourself--regardless of everything and everyone else--what it is you want. If he's the love of your life, and you are his, go ahead and manifest that relationship: You know you can, and you will if you want it. In the manifestation, put in that he will be faithful, as will you, and that'll help.

Of course, once you reunite, this DEFINITELY needs to be a thing you discuss in-depth, possibly with a third party, perhaps a counselor. There are root causes behind all of this that you will need to address, lest you let the cycle continue.

well you obviously took that super aggressively and so no sorry I won't pipe down at all. So I guess that's a you problem. 

Regardless of her title which also asks for HELP!!!, at the end of the day people that post on the forum are coming from a place where it is a low vibration so like I mentioned lets work together to bring vibration up and give people hope if we are in a place to do so. It is all about alignment. If you feel so opinionated maybe constructively answering her question would have helped her maybe even feel some hope, when she is so clearly looking for a helpful answer. 

If some "people are genuinely not meant to serve you in terms of happiness and are instead meant to help you grow" wouldn't you rather discover that from a place where you are the best version of yourself and can see through the fog of whatever issues that are within and have them come to the forefront? The best version of you attracts the best version of others so then and only then would I agree with your opinion. So instead of an impulsive decision, MiracleMaker asked a question but true believers of LOA know that any situation can start new and be completely loving and successful, whether it is right or wrong in the eyes of someone else is completely irrelevant. 

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Blue wrote:

MiracleMaker wrote:

Hey everyone, I am feeling so hopeless right now I hope someone reaches out. I feel so lost, alone and scared. My ex, who I love so dearly keeps cheating on me. Its like the story keeps repeating itself with the same people. The only constant that has remained was me because I believed him overtime I see said I was the one, I am the one he loves, I am the person he wants to build a life with. Even people close to him tell me to leave him alone because I don't deserve to be treated like this. The details are so terrible and I am so scared. Someone, please help me. Is there really no such thing as an impossible situation or have I finally met it

Why are you scared? Because you fell in love with a loser?

Maybe this is just me, but I would never get back with someone who cheated on me. Why? Because I know I'm a goddess, an angel and I know my worth. And if he can't see it, **** it and him (not literally, of course). Cheat on me and you cheat yourself out of my love. In the end, the loser isn't me and the one who lost out isn't me - it's him.

A snake can shed its skin over and over, it'll still be a snake. As harsh as this sounds, he doesn't respect you at all and he obviously doesn't want to build a life with you because look at how he treats you. You deserve someone who isn't going to cheat on you or treat you that way.

But again - maybe this is just my opinion. I don't forgive cheating because it's beyond disgusting and there is NO reason for it at all. EVER. No matter what excuses people spew.

If you truly want this to work, you need to pick yourself up and stop crying over it. You need to research some RS and visualisations and direct it towards him. There is plenty of info on this forum for you to refer to. Good Luck.

 Go on YouTube and watch teal swans video about why people cheat.

MiracleMaker wrote:

I am not sure if there are enough words to say how thankful I am for this post because this feeling of hopelessness is what brought me to this forum in the first place. I have done all the research on cheating partners and if it were that black and white for me, trust me I wouldn't be here..many of us wouldn't be for that matter because they are all based on the limiting beliefs of what should and would be, though I discount no one's opinion..I suppose it wouldn't hurt to be more selective in what influences I accept moving forward. I want to believe that there are miracles that can defy logic, go against the grain and beat the odds.. I really wanna believe that but then if I'm being 'real' it seems impossible right? I have so much work I wanna do  on myself and this goes deeper than just getting him back, I truly believe there is merit in this LOA. Thank you so much once again for your reply. You made bedtime a little easier for me tonight

The beauty of LOA is that we get to really investigate and accept that sometimes even though things may seem black or white, right or wrong that there is ALWAYS another answer- actually infinite answers. Really take this journey and commit and heal yourself. I know the pain you are feeling and I can tell you forgiveness and love is what got my through and whatever you desire will truly be yours. From healing will come a whole new side that maybe you haven't been in touch with in months or years and then who knows what will happen? Just commit to your own happiness and move forward. On the tough days just reaffirm " his is mine, and he is faithful" whatever you need to just feel better. If your sad feel sad, let it pass and then get on with your day. You have the right to live a life that is representative of who you are on the inside. That can mean a lot of different things to different people but when I think about it i'm free. Free from anger, hatred, grudges and allowing people to control my happiness.