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Need help ;/
So I just stumbled on something that came up on Facebook...one of my ex's friends which I'm friends with on Facebook liked a picture of my ex and his ex happy together. I'm so angry at this point, it's like everything he told me was a lie.
At this point I'm just really lost, I don't know what to do. I still want him but i don't know how to get back on track to feeling better about this. I told my friend about it and asked him why he is still keeping me around on Facebook and snapchat, and he said he's probably keeping me around as a rebound....and he said that odd convo I had with him recently (I mentioned this on a different post, he asked me strangely why I was up late and I needed sleep) was actually sent by his ex to get a reaction from me. It never occurred to me but it would kind of make sense considering it's really out of his character and midnight is not late for him and he knows I stay up late.
I'm so lost and hurt, any advice would be great.
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Thanks love yourself, I feel a little better. I didn't go on his profile though and I have unfollowed him but I'm friends with one of his friends on Facebook and she just became friends with his ex, now she's liking everything she posts, including her new profile picture which is what I'm upset about. I saw in the comments he posted gay <3 so it's obvious he still has a thing for her :/
I think it's time I unfollow his friend as well.
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Thread Starter- Tinkerbell
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I have a question....should I just delete him from Facebook altogether?? It looks like at this point I was his his rebound and keeping me around as an option....so my friends think I should just delete him. On the other hand, I kinda don't want to since it can be a way of making contact. What should I do?
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Thread Starter- MrsPlaha
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Re: Need help ;/
If its making you upset, then delete him.
I deleted Vee off all my social media in Jan. Only kept his number. Im happy this way, as I dont get upset by looking at his posts etc.
Love yourself before you love others 💖
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Deleting him won't have any bad effects, trust me. I blocked my ex on Facebook eight months ago, and he texted me two days ago. So if deleting him will help keep you in a more positive place, then maybe that's what you should do. 
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I don't think it makes too much of a difference. At this point I'm better off unfollowing his friend who keeps liking my guy's ex's posts. Now his ex is posting relationship sayings and sharing memories of when they were together years ago.
It's so hard to ignore current reality and keep positive 
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It is tricky to do, but just for a little while can you try to believe that YOU CREATE THE STORY?
Because you actually do. And so it's not actually ignoring the reality, it's DELETING the accidental scene you wrote with your fears, and REWRITING the new script to match your desires! Does that seem a little easier to do? The reality you see playing out is only because your worrying about it has bought it into your field. No biggie, as long as you change the script right now! Try it for just a little while, and you'll be astounded at what happens. 😘
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Cherished wrote:
It is tricky to do, but just for a little while can you try to believe that YOU CREATE THE STORY?
Because you actually do. And so it's not actually ignoring the reality, it's DELETING the accidental scene you wrote with your fears, and REWRITING the new script to match your desires! Does that seem a little easier to do? The reality you see playing out is only because your worrying about it has bought it into your field. No biggie, as long as you change the script right now! Try it for just a little while, and you'll be astounded at what happens. 😘
Thanks Cherished, that makes a little more sense. And at the risk of sounding like an idiot (LOL), do you mean literally rewriting the story? Like pen and paper style?
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It is tricky to do, but just for a little while can you try to believe that YOU CREATE THE STORY?
Because you actually do. And so it's not actually ignoring the reality, it's DELETING the accidental scene you wrote with your fears, and REWRITING the new script to match your desires! Does that seem a little easier to do? The reality you see playing out is only because your worrying about it has bought it into your field. No biggie, as long as you change the script right now! Try it for just a little while, and you'll be astounded at what happens. 😘Thanks Cherished, that makes a little more sense. And at the risk of sounding like an idiot (LOL), do you mean literally rewriting the story? Like pen and paper style?
If you like.. Scripting it is really powerful. Write it from your feel it, taste it, touch it experience and then really get into the story as you read it aloud. Own it and nurture your new story. Give it loads of love to grow!
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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It is tricky to do, but just for a little while can you try to believe that YOU CREATE THE STORY?
Because you actually do. And so it's not actually ignoring the reality, it's DELETING the accidental scene you wrote with your fears, and REWRITING the new script to match your desires! Does that seem a little easier to do? The reality you see playing out is only because your worrying about it has bought it into your field. No biggie, as long as you change the script right now! Try it for just a little while, and you'll be astounded at what happens. 😘Thanks Cherished, that makes a little more sense. And at the risk of sounding like an idiot (LOL), do you mean literally rewriting the story? Like pen and paper style?
If you like.. Scripting it is really powerful. Write it from your feel it, taste it, touch it experience and then really get into the story as you read it aloud. Own it and nurture your new story. Give it loads of love to grow!
Thanks cherished, I wrote a full sheet of paper about him telling me how grateful and happy he is to have me as his girlfriend and vice versa
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