1 - MadMoiselle87
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Letting go or keep doing the work
Guys I'm a bit confused what I should do right now. Since something happened between me and my love (don't want to explain some of you already know but that's too much reality ^^) we end the contact (was my choice because everything else would hurt more I guess..) anywaaaay.. A friend of me who always knows about LOA gave me the advice to let go now for a month or something. That means no thinking about him (well that's a big issue already), no visualizations, no affirmations, no scripting, no act as if NOTHING just letting go. Yesterday I read some success stories where really that letting go part helped but I'm not really sure about that. For example if I read the awesome success story from jensherratt (hopefully I wrote the name correct lol sorry if not ^^) she did all of the techniques with amazing results.. So I'm confused now.. What do you think? Is it better to hold on to the techniques or to letting go? Or something inbetween? Like doing the techniques in the evening for example and try to let go through the day?
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
I suppose it all goes back to the definition of what letting go means.
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- MadMoiselle87
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
Yeah lol that's a good question haha. In my case I definitely don't want to give up. So in this case I mean by letting go 'trust the universe that everything will work out as you wished for'
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
You have infinite opportunities to get him back. So, it's all about what is best for you.
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I suppose it all goes back to the definition of what letting go means.
Exactly. I feel like in order to really let go, you need to understand what it means, and at the moment you (MadMoiselle) do not have a full grip on it. Techniques do not bring the desire about, its simply there to help raise your vibration and get you into the desired reality feeling. But that won't happen if you don't let go of the end result.
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
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- MadMoiselle87
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I suppose it all goes back to the definition of what letting go means.
Exactly. I feel like in order to really let go, you need to understand what it means, and at the moment you (MadMoiselle) do not have a full grip on it. Techniques do not bring the desire about, its simply there to help raise your vibration and get you into the desired reality feeling. But that won't happen if you don't let go of the end result.
I always thought you should focus on the end result? And of course I know it's not about the techniques. It's about keeping positive, vibes high and have faith.
But still I don't know if it's better to let go/or not think about it throughout the day and do some visualizations or if it's better to let go completely? You know what I mean? Don't know how to explain it other way haha
I did so much techniques before we broke the contact but I had a problem with not being worried or anxious so I only had success from time to time or if my mood was very well
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Thread Starter- big_blue
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
You should focus on your desired reality/end result, but not worry how, when, where its going to happen. You just let it happen. You can still think about your desire throughout the day, as long as its HAPPY and FEELS GOOD. If thinking about these things do not bring about good thoughts and feelings, think about something else.
You do whatever is best for YOU. Law of Attraction is all about YOU.
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday
- MadMoiselle87
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Re: Letting go or keep doing the work
You should focus on your desired reality/end result, but not worry how, when, where its going to happen. You just let it happen. You can still think about your desire throughout the day, as long as its HAPPY and FEELS GOOD. If thinking about these things do not bring about good thoughts and feelings, think about something else.
You do whatever is best for YOU. Law of Attraction is all about YOU.
Okay so you think it doesnt matter what I'm doing as long as I feel good? 
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Thread Starter- big_blue
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As long as you do not think any negative or contradictory things about your desire, do as you please. Everyone is different and has a different approach, but the concept is the same.
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday
- MadMoiselle87
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As long as you do not think any negative or contradictory things about your desire, do as you please. Everyone is different and has a different approach, but the concept is the same.
Well as for me it's very hard not to think about him I guess it's a good idea as avaelle told me to at least visualize before going to bed. And if I can't think positive try to think nothing at all lol.
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