How about I ask this.

How do you all keep the faith up? 
I'm quick to look back into the current reality. Deep down, my gut tells me not to give up and that she's the one, so I won't.

But how do you all avoid looking at "how things currently are"?

Dan2015 wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

How about I ask this.

How do you all keep the faith up? 
I'm quick to look back into the current reality. Deep down, my gut tells me not to give up and that she's the one, so I won't.

But how do you all avoid looking at "how things currently are"?

I've gotten to the point, where I just don't think about the person. Or I keep it minimal

I try thinking about other things and focusing on other aspects of life


I think a good question for you or any of us is


"What do you have to lose?" I mean, many of us don't have our people back yet

So what do we have to lose in believing? It won't be any worse than it is now

Plus, it's good to have an imagination. Think when you were a kid, did you stop thinking of things in a fantasy way, because it wasn't in your reality yet?

I would suggest, visualizing,etc. but only when you're in the mood for it and it feels good, if it doesn't feel good, take the day off of visualizing

That is true! I guess I just worry that the lack of thinking of her would cause her to flee further, but IDK. I know I can do this! I just have to find more faith in my imagination, and count less on the physical reality! 

Thank you
 

YesIWILL wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

How about I ask this.

How do you all keep the faith up? 
I'm quick to look back into the current reality. Deep down, my gut tells me not to give up and that she's the one, so I won't.

But how do you all avoid looking at "how things currently are"?

I've gotten to the point, where I just don't think about the person. Or I keep it minimal

I try thinking about other things and focusing on other aspects of life


I think a good question for you or any of us is


"What do you have to lose?" I mean, many of us don't have our people back yet

So what do we have to lose in believing? It won't be any worse than it is now

Plus, it's good to have an imagination. Think when you were a kid, did you stop thinking of things in a fantasy way, because it wasn't in your reality yet?

I would suggest, visualizing,etc. but only when you're in the mood for it and it feels good, if it doesn't feel good, take the day off of visualizing

That is true! I guess I just worry that the lack of thinking of her would cause her to flee further, but IDK. I know I can do this! I just have to find more faith in my imagination, and count less on the physical reality! 

Thank you
 

Your response outlining your fears is exactly the point I made in response to another thread Dan made. People fear the universe will think ok mate you're ok without the person/job/car whatever so you're not having it  ... Which I'm sure is not the way it works.