PrettyFlamingo wrote:

From what I recall the restraining order was because you kept phoning and messaging which you're not doing anymore so please let that go. Don't beat yourself up about it.

I tried calling her once, semi-recently, she ignored me. So it's more about me trying to find a way to live in complete faith and believe she'll return without a doubt. I believe in the LoA, but as far as her coming back, I can't exactly notworry about it to some degree. I'd like to get to that place of knowing.

It has gotten to the point, where everyone has given you literally every detail of advice, I don't think there's much else to say

You have way too much fear right now, if I'm being honestly you've only changed maybe 2-4 percent from your old account.    What happens if you never get her back? Will your life be over?

I don't even think with your mindset right now, that you can attract her back, I don't think you have much faith.    I know it's so cliche, but you're better off just focusing on yourself and getting to the point where you don't "need" her back

Right now, I think you're too obsessed and too attached to the outcome,    Trust me. I've been there, you're at the point where you'll make a thread every time you have a negative thought

Most people here want their person back, but not everyone obsesses over it, or gets defeated when the smallest thing doesn't go their way.    You don't even give yourself a chance to believe

Avaelle wrote:

I'm not familiar with your story but if she was going to report you over calls and messages, she was likely annoyed. 

People that have annoyed me with messages and calls or the people that I know that was excessive with their messages - they are insecure. They are pining to receive their happiness from that one person. 

You should probably work on yourself a bit, build yourself up and allow her to come to you.

Yeah I did call and text a lot earlier on. We used to date, love happened, etc. She became unattracted to me, dead-set on the fact that we'll never be together. I don't want to say my story again though because I'm really excited to make a new story with her

I have been working on myself, and I'm really excited to continue

Dan2015 wrote:

It has gotten to the point, where everyone has given you literally every detail of advice, I don't think there's much else to say

You have way too much fear right now, if I'm being honestly you've only changed maybe 2-4 percent from your old account. What happens if you never get her back? Will your life be over?

I don't even think with your mindset right now, that you can attract her back, I don't think you have much faith. I know it's so cliche, but you're better off just focusing on yourself and getting to the point where you don't "need" her back

Right now, I think you're too obsessed and too attached to the outcome, Trust me. I've been there, you're at the point where you'll make a thread every time you have a negative thought

Most people here want their person back, but not everyone obsesses over it, or gets defeated when the smallest thing doesn't go their way. You don't even give yourself a chance to believe

Oh no no no. I've changed a LOT! Like a LOT a LOT. I think the issue I'm having right now, is living too much in the current reality. I'm trying to ignore how impossible my situation seems, and just have faith. But I've gotten a lot better

YesIWILL wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

I agree with Dan. It's really time to let go of her, at least for a few months. You know what? I learned the most about LoA, when I finally stopped to chase a guy and started to dig deeper into LoA for me. I wanted to learn how to be happy and who I am and within maybe 3 months I made so much more progress than within the whole year before. Now I feel in the position to attract anything I want, including persons.

I've actually tried seeing other people. It just didn't feel right, you know?
But I'm excited because classes start up next week! A little nervous about them though haha!
I just need to find a way to live in my mind and not in the reality.

Where did I say anything about seeing other people?