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Strange manifestation a different guy messaged me
OK so I'm trying to attract back my ex. Ages and ages ago last year I was talking to a different guy online. We talked for about a month and then lost contact. Months past, I messaged him again and he replied and we talked for a few weeks but then he ignored me. I liked a pic of his on FB and he he deleted me. I was a little annoyed and confused to why he did this. Anyway this was a while a go and today I had a random thought about him, just popped in my mind. Just now as I was looking at the dating site we started talking on I saw he was online and he's messaged me again.
How is this happening?
Is it cos I had a thought?
I think about my ex a lot and still looking forward to when he messaged me lol
How has this happened?
Am I doing something wrong
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Re: Strange manifestation a different guy messaged me
By the way the other guy whose just messaged me was never an ex, we only talked online but never met
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Re: Strange manifestation a different guy messaged me
You don't care as much about the other guys, so they come right through.
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Re: Strange manifestation a different guy messaged me
Avaelle wrote:
You don't care as much about the other guys, so they come right through.
Hmmm OK. I can't not care about my ex
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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You don't care as much about the other guys, so they come right through.
Hmmm OK. I can't not care about my ex
You have a neither here nor there attitude about the other guys, you aren't focusing on them etc so they pop up.
You likely obsess over your "ex"(which it isn't good to call him that),focus on him. When you focus and obsess so much, you're likely putting out that "he doesn't call me" "he doesn't text me" "i haven't heard from him in a long time" so you get more of what which is not hearing from him. If you stop focusing on the ex so much, worry about other things then he will pop up like the other guys.
The Universe is your playground.
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Re: Strange manifestation a different guy messaged me
You don't care as much about the other guys, so they come right through.
Hmmm OK. I can't not care about my exYou have a neither here nor there attitude about the other guys, you aren't focusing on them etc so they pop up.
You likely obsess over your "ex"(which it isn't good to call him that),focus on him. When you focus and obsess so much, you're likely putting out that "he doesn't call me" "he doesn't text me" "i haven't heard from him in a long time" so you get more of what which is not hearing from him. If you stop focusing on the ex so much, worry about other things then he will pop up like the other guys.
Thank you.
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