When I was 18 and had never heard of Law of Attraction, I was besotted with a guy called Stuart. I fixated on him - we had only met three times in a club when I was with my friend and he was with two of his. The third time he walked me home and we kissed and cuddled and he said when he came back from the course he was going on, we would get together. He ignored me the next time I saw him and I was devastated.  I made far too much of it, trying to get him back etc "back" - we had never really been together.

So what I then decided to do was go out with his mate Andrew.  This was intended to make him jealous. He asked me out, no problem, as it coincided with his birthday and I gave him a card. The plan to make the other guy jealous didn't work, as he didn't give a monkey's, met someone else and married her very quickly having got her pregnant, and I found I was having far more fun with Andrew anyway!!  That didn't work romantically, as he fancied me in a way I didn't fancy him - but when I ended the relationship I really missed him - as he was a fab friend.