Yeah, this is why I don't buy into the "we literally create everything we experience" idea. It simply has not been true from my own experience.

Now, some people will say that you can still be happy and attract rudeness from your sister because that's your belief (thought pattern) about her.

I also don't buy into that because my own experience has shown me otherwise.

I asked the same question on another forum a long time ago. A member told me that it all operates like the double-slit experiment. When we observe something, that something confirms to our subconscious beliefs about it. But for everything else we don't observe, the "laws of probablity" are in command. I also didn't buy into this idea.

Abraham also talks about clattering, basically people on different vibrations will fall out.

"When you decide that you want to feel good, and you reach for the vibration
that feels good to you and you establish that as your Tone, either the
people around you will be uplifted to join you in that vibration or, if
their vibration is already very well chosen otherwise, they will clatter
right out of your experience. But what happens to most of you is, while they
are clattering out of your experience, you notice they're clattering. You
begin to clatter too, and then they clatter right back into your experience,
and you clatter together miserably and continually. "

This makes more sense to me, although I don't know how true it is.

When it comes to rude people, I do find that the more positive I am, either they start being calmer or nicer to me (not always) or I just find it easier to keep my distance and meet new people who are nicer and my buttons simply can't be pressed since I've dealt with it.

Last edited by Colonel Roosevelt (1/03/2017 10:03 pm)

I remember a cousin of mine debated with me about Karma. He insisted that everything that happened wasn't a result of it. I begged to differ.

In the end, what would you be scammed out of? Your misery?

It's a kin bit pointless to mock and laugh at it

Just experiment with what feels right to you and see what happens, see what you learn and tweak it to suit your needs.

What Dan wrote usually works best for me: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=5421

YesIWILL wrote:

how the **** can i get someone who hates me and no longer finds me attractive back??!

Do you hate yourself? Do you think you're attractive? I'd be more concerned about that. If you base everything on what she thinks, you'll suffer forever.

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Just experiment with what feels right to you and see what happens, see what you learn and tweak it to suit your needs.

What Dan wrote usually works best for me: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=5421

YesIWILL wrote:

how the **** can i get someone who hates me and no longer finds me attractive back??!

Do you hate yourself? Do you think you're attractive? I'd be more concerned about that. If you base everything on what she thinks, you'll suffer forever.

 
Anything is possible. People can change their mind. They'll always find you attractive.

YesIWILL wrote:

so how is any of this true?! it sounds like confirmation bias and coincidence to me. sorry. i just got my confidence shot way down tonight by a situation. but it is making me lose faith, completely. if i dont control all of it, how the **** can i get someone who hates me and no longer finds me attractive back??!

You doubt, so you attract the responses you fear. You could take this as a proof of your power.

You have to make a choice here and regardless of what you choose, you will never have a real proof, if your choice was right, only evidence. It's always a belief choice. Either you choose that what you have probably believed your whole life, that there is an outside world with people and objects moving around in it. If you are lucky, you can manipulate something here and there, but LoA doesn't really makes sense in such a world, at least for me. The second model you can choose is that the whole world doesn't exist outside, but inside your consciousness. Then, suddenly it makes sense that you can manipulate things and it makes you infinitely powerful. The choice is up to you. I only know a few people who are bold enough to accept the second concept in its fullness, but those people have the most incredible manifestation stories to tell. I haven't fully integrated it in my life yet, but since I try to live with this model, the amount of synchronicities and instant manifestations that I encounter has increased significantly.


It's not a very good idea to think about experiences that you had before you learned about LoA, because you most probably had no clue what you thought back then.
And everyone can have a bad day. That's something you know (aka you have a belief about), so why does it surprise you?