Sanshi wrote:

It tries to tell you that you focus on him. It's a reflection of your focus. Has nothing to do with him coming around tomorrow. Sorry to say that, but LoA is precise - you can't run around feeling bad, analysing "signs" and expect things to change. It just doesn't work that way.

I'm aware I focus on him. But I have to admit it's no longer my main focus . It's those pops of reminders I get out of nowhere that confuse we .
I'd welcome hearing from him tomorrow, but I'm finally where if I don't hear from him months down the road I'm ok with it .
Funny but I've been attracting so many people in my life I'm more at ease than I was .
Do I want him back in my life ? Yes , but now I can say I'm getting more in tune with letting the universe handle it . It's just those little "pops" of his name that drives me crazy !!

Alycat1110 wrote:

I was reading a book yesterday that said that when he just pops into your mind it because your subconsciouses are connected and he actually thinking about you. That was in Lanie Stevens book. I thought okay cool. 

One question though, is it that you don't want your relationship right now? I don't know why you would say you're okay if it down the road. The whole point of manifestation to actually allow it is to feel as if. Aren't you just blocking it by saying meh, down the road is fine if it isn't right now? 
(sorry if that isn't how you meant it!) 

I do want things back , but I don't want them back the same way before . I need to work on myself and the more I do that the better and stronger I become.
I'm do act as if , but my acting as if also includes me not being the same needy clingy person I was .
I do hope that he thinks about me and I hoping he reaches out soon . But until that happens I will continue to work on bettering myself so that the outcome will be a greater success.
I'm new at this so if I'm doing something wrong, I welcome any feedback . Thanks all 💕💕💕

Avaelle wrote:

You can work on yourself while acting as if. He's not going to pop up really until you're ready.  Your attempt to draw a line in the sand and hope may backfire.   As long as you're hoping, he will not manifest.

As I said I'm new to this . Please explain what I'm doing when you say my attempt to draw a line in the sand may backfire . And as long as I'm hoping he will not manifest .
Maybe I'm not explaining things right

Alycat1110 wrote:

Tumom wrote:

I do want things back , but I don't want them back the same way before . I need to work on myself and the more I do that the better and stronger I become.
I'm do act as if , but my acting as if also includes me not being the same needy clingy person I was .
I do hope that he thinks about me and I hoping he reaches out soon . But until that happens I will continue to work on bettering myself so that the outcome will be a greater success.
I'm new at this so if I'm doing something wrong, I welcome any feedback . Thanks all 💕💕💕

I think there is a way for everything to come together. So if what you are doing feels right, keep doing it. Of course we have to grow as individuals before our manifestation the this true. Maybe you just want to be the best version of yourself before he manifests and there isn't anything wrong with that. 
I am sure he thinks about you, when you focus on it you see the manifestations right in front of your face you know their car, or their name, or something that you remember about them. As i really acted as if it became I smelt his cologne, or i get these chills and tingles all over my body but i'm not cold, or like you said it just POPS into your head. 
 

Exactly !!!!Thats what I'm saying . The old me couldn't hold on to the relationship as I better myself I'm confident I will . I do act as if but NOT like you and I think that's what I'm missing. Thank you 😀😀😀