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Hi Everyone,
I have been trying LOA, RS, and a bit of scripting but I am discouraged. Why? Well my exย broke up with meย and yet we have remained in each others livesย on a daily basis. Now he has always said that if I would stop being so clingy with the phone calls, emails and texts that things would be better however in my mind I feel like it won't happen. He gets annoyed now when we talk and has blocked me on one of his phones but continues to call me if I ask him or I can call him. Every time I ask if he wants to not talk anymore, he only says that all he wants me to do is listen to him and to allow him to call me when he wants to talk. I heard about NO CONTACT and I have been scared to do it and the longest Iย have gone is two weeks and then I break down. I wan this man so bad back in my life and I don't know how to start. I don't thing I am doing anything right and now when we talk we are upset and I am crying then I get depressed. Ifย I could do NO CONTACT for a long period of time and be successful I wonder if he would think enough of me to call. I read the stories on here and I am so happy for everyone that have reconciled and I wish it was me. Can anyone please help me because right now I am so down. Thanks everyone and have a beautiful day.ย ย ย ย ย
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I think in your case, no contact would be a good thing. At least for awhile. Don't be afraid of it. What you need to do is focus more on yourself right now. You need to give yourself a life outside of him, if that makes sense. Find things that interest you and make you happy. Take steps to make your life better. You need to realize that you don't NEED him to be happy. You are the only person who can make you happy. Don't put that responsibility on him or anyone else. If you do, you will never be in a healthy relationship with him. Seriously. You need to find yourself and be proud of who you are. Once you stop being so attached to him, all of this will come more naturally. Trust me, I've been there. Also, keep in mind that it DOES NOT matter how long you go without talking to him or seeing him -- you can ALWAYS still get him back. So, relax.
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Thank you Sunny. I needed to hear this as I have been feeling really low.