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Feeling hurt...
So as you all know I reached out to her recently and she ignored me. I sent her a facebook message afterward, after reactivating it and she never even read it, but im sure shes been online. I sent her a request on snapchat but its still "pending".
She always has her phone on her so she saw it...
I went on snapchat and saw her sisters story. Bad idea. She was there taking a selfie with her and she looked really happy, holding her phone.
How can she go months with ignoring me, or not even reaching out? Shes making it very clear she doesnt like me in any way anymore. No matter what i do, she ignores me. Meh.
Im at a loss guys. Pretty hurt too...
I asked for a Christmas miracle, looks like thats not happening...
I guess i need to jumpstart my faith. Because i havent gotten anywhere despite feeling great and doing well. Im losing faith that i can get her back guys... she just doesnt care about me. Shes gone so long without replying to me, and if she had feelings for me, shed at least read my message.
Im at a loss... im losing faith... please help
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Just came across a post on facebook that said "life is too short to wait"...
She has her phone on her... shes just been ignoring me and hasnt reached out... this makes me worry if shes been seeing another guy...
My message i left on her phone was heartfelt... nothing.
Gah, guys. Holidays are hard, I just want to be with her again...
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You should know by now that this thoughts don't lead you anywhere. And LoA is not about waiting, it's the very opposite.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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She had her phone out so shes texting others... i know she is because thats all she does on her phone. She mustve been pretty into it if she didnt put it away for the photo.
Gah!!!!! **** this pain. It hurts so much. I apologize for the negativity. Its just hitting me really hard. And i really love her.
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Thread Starter- YesIWILL
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Sanshi wrote:
You should know by now that this thoughts don't lead you anywhere. And LoA is not about waiting, it's the very opposite.
I know. Its just a hard day. Thank you Sanshi. I guess the longer I go without her reaching out, my belief shortens? Maybe? I dont even know. But i know youre trying to help me, and it means the world to me. Thank you SO much!
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She even ignored my "merry christmas".
This is pretty far from a merry christmas...
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But it's just the reflection of your past thoughts, remember? You can't look at reality and expect it to change. It's just not the way it works. It's the other way around.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Try journaling your thoughts and feelings, it's a good way to make peace with your emotions and gain inner clarity, you may even find a new positive perspective for yourself. I did this today for an issue that's been bothering me and now I feel a lot better about it all.
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thank you guys. its just so hard to ignore that she hates me and is still ignoring me. i mean, for someone who wants you out of their life, says they have no attraction to you, hates you, etc... how are you supposed to ignore that and believe she'll come back? this just ruined me. i just cant believe shed ever come back. itd take more than a miracle. she even ignored my "merry christmas"... guys...
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Thread Starter- Colonel Roosevelt
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But you know what?? **** that! IT DOESNT MATTER. This is MY life. And this is MY STORY! I am the writer! This will change!
So for the past little while I've been working on myself, letting go and feeling good!! Focusing on my happiness and doing things that make happy
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