Nova74 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

I thought you screenshotted my post about this? Now it seems that you have never read it.

 
I did. I just really wanted to to see others perspectives to see what resonates with me the most.

Don't you see that you are still doing the same thing? You can't find the confirmation you seek ouside of you. It doesn't matter, if you talk about teachers or forum users, it's all a reflection of yourself.
 

You should be confident and trusting of the Universe to already know that whatever you believe you can achieve. Why don't you believe? You need to realize the things that are holding you back from achieving and manifesting what it is that you want for your life. If you are having trouble believing your love will manifest a new relationship tackle another area of your life or start with small manifestation around your desire. 

Nova74 wrote:

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Nova74 wrote:

I know that LOA is real and is constantly proving itself but since all of the teachers of LOA have said that it's probably not possible to attract someone specific because all they represent is a feeling and we just attract that feeling in the form of another thing or person. I'm open to anything happening but I really do want my love back and I don't want to settle for anything else. How do I get over these doubts?

I'm curious, which teachers have said this?
 

 
Betinho Massaro, Abraham Hicks, Neville

None of them had said it's impossible they've all just been very unsure.

I took a look at Bentinho Massaro. What he said is very similar to Abe-Hicks. So basically they're saying it's possible to attract a specific person, but something else might happen. The specific person represents a feeling we're after, and when we ourselves live that feeling, we might attract that person or someone else who is a better match. In other words, neither of them give guarantees. Abe even said somewhere that "the Universe has a plan even better than yours."

As for Neville Goddard, a lot of his fans like to say that he attracted his 2nd wife so they think they can do what he did to attract any specific person they want. But here's what Neville said: "I have had people say to me, “You know, I want that man, and no other man.” I said, “No, you don’t; you want to be happily married. You don’t want that man or no man.” “Oh, yes, that man or no man.” Then, of course, this always shocks them. I say, “If he dropped dead right now, would you want to be married?” “Well, he isn’t going to drop…” “I didn’t ask you that. If he dropped dead right now, or if he is right this very moment accused of being the world’s greatest thief or murderer, do you still want him” “Well, now, why ask those questions, Neville? I want that man.” But, you see, it isn’t that man. They want to be happily married. I have gone to so many weddings where it was either that man or none, and it wasn’t “that man”! And they are embarrassed when they see me standing in the aisle, because it had to be “that man or no man,” and here it isn’t that man at all. And they walk down [the aisle] – they are happy with their new mate, but a little sheepish as they pass by because they know I know he was not the man.You want to be happily married. All right, go to the end. You are happily married. Then let him come, clothed in all that it takes to be happy in your world."

So yeah, even Neville doesn't agree with focusing on a specific person, he wants you to go to the end which is feeling that you are in a happy relationship, which may be with someone else.

If you want my opinion on this, first take some time to really heal yourself and make peace with heartbreak, sadness, and the fears you have. And then when you feel like you're in a good state of mind, put into practice the LoA advice for a few weeks and see what happens, see it like an experiment because that's really all this is.