It's something I've figured out just recently, so I haven't mastered it yet myself, but I think it's really important to stop seeing the world outside of yourself. It's like when you have a lucid dream. You know that you are dreaming and that gives you power over your dream. It's just new thought patterns you have to implement, so repetition is key. You have practiced "I'm here, you are there" your whole life, it will take time.

I basically mean that you have to throw the way you think out of the window and start completely new. What people do normally is thinking about reality how it is (we know that it is just a reflection, so that's the most stupid thing you can do). Listen to people who talk about something and you will most probably discover your own thought patterns: "Hi mom, listen to what happend to me today. This guy really treated me unfair and I missed the bus and my boss was an idiot again". That's the old way of thinking and talking to other people. Your new thought patterns have to become strange in the eyes of others, else you are on the wrong track. When you start to see yourself as the creator of the world, you don't longer analyse what happens within it and you don't longer believe in cause and effect. "Oh, he said that, so he will probably do that now". That is thinking in cause and effect. You will be proven right probably, but not because what he said was the cause that caused an effect, but because you expected it. You have to start seeing everything as a manifestation of your vibration. So, when you feel the need to analyse a situation, you do it on a vibrational level: "Oh, what did I think, expect or believe to bring that about?".

I think Bentinho Massaro has bits and pieces of it spread all over his talks.