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No wait, he's the guy i want. His overprotective,his love,his care,his smiles,his hands is what i wanna hold,the way he cheers me up by bringing me to eat or say something that's funny or touching. He will be back. He's everything that i want. We will have endless dates,he will apologise of what he did and swears that he will never hurt me again, he will make me feel loved and secured. He'll contact me at all times whenever he's busy or not. He will free his time to find me if he's busy. He will always want to know what im doing and who im with. He feels insecure with me and he cant think of life without me.He will update what he's doing to let me feels secured and connected to him. He will try to work out long distance relationship with me and he wanted to spend rest of his life with me. He proposed to me and we're getting married! Our parents agreed!! He loves me unconditionally from now on. Thankyou universe for letting it happen.;)
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Good save! But you have to FEEL it
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Cherished wrote:
Good save! But you have to FEEL it
Feeling it ;) how to not giving myself pressure cherished?
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It's hard, I know.. I promise, I really know how difficult it is at first. But if you can just keep trying, it truly does get easier. Start with a few minutes feeling good. Then try again. Then eventually you'll notice that you're still happy at lunch..
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Cherished wrote:
It's hard, I know.. I promise, I really know how difficult it is at first. But if you can just keep trying, it truly does get easier. Start with a few minutes feeling good. Then try again. Then eventually you'll notice that you're still happy at lunch..
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Thankyou so much for your support ;) but now I have to forget the past experience, about how he hurt me.
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If you want to attract him back you certainly must let go of the past. You really need to drop it, it doesn't matter. Only your thoughts right now matter. So make them wonderful thoughts. Honestly, just for a few days, and you will feel so much better
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Yea, I tried that for the whole day. I tell myself that it was the past and I can change my future NOW. Then I try to get detached, I wanted to do my stuff and hang around with my mom. But once i got too happy and forgot about it, I suddenly freaked out and thinks that he's not back yet and I should keep doing visualise or anything that I can attract him back. I should stay happy and forget about it but I'm scared. I'm scared that means I'll let him go or let the universe forget that I want him back?
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No the universe won't ever forget what you want. The only thing that slows your progress is when you stop being happy to check if he's come back yet. You really need to try and make being happy a priority because you deserve to be happy! You aren't letting go of him, you're letting go of your negative thoughts about him.
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Yea, I kinda let it go today. Cherished, do you have any techniques that can help me to let go of what he did to me in the past?
Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/15/2015 8:16 am)
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I don't know if you do work on yourself. But if you or anyone here unable to delete the fearful negative thoughts, hurtful words or similar feelings like this due to which you're struggling hard try this Pstec technique.
Years ago, someone shared it to me which helped me a lot deleting those unwanted thoughts which were out of the question for me at the time.
Here you can find free 6 audios of click track...listen, follow the instructions and you'll amazed by the results...especially for the few first week. There are more but you will have to spend your money for that. I'd tried only the 6 free audios of click track.