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You cannot resent and desire at once
Hey loves!
Ok so, after hours of research on the law of attraction (time well spent may I add), I'm still struggling to understand one thing.
HOW, am I able to desire a person I hate? My baby's dad hasn't been in her life for almost a year. I haven't heard from him, he just disappeared and started a new relationship. Where I am so angry, I still want to be with him so we can be a family. How can I desire and manifest this? I can be in total alignment and the thought of him throws me out of alignment.
How can I forgive? Theres so much resentment to the point it is physically taking it's toll on me. I want him, but I want freedom from the resentment and replaying thoughts more. It's been almost a year and I still replay everything over and over in my mind. I just want to be free of the resentment towards him.
Sending love to all forum members,
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Re: You cannot resent and desire at once
Maybe to try with Neville rewriting the past? For start.
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I've heard of this! But what does it entail?
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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Re: You cannot resent and desire at once
I'm sure there is a situation or something was said that makes you upset with him. Replay it in your head except change what happened. Do it over and over. It will change how you feel about it all and him.
The Universe is your playground.
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Like Avaelle said. I did the same. So, now when I think about that situation I'm not angry or upset anymore. This is technique which all psychologists recommended, also
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I've even been driving down the road, talking aloud and addressing people from my past in a way that made me feel better.
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Re: You cannot resent and desire at once
Can someone give me an example? Instead of saying my baby's dad left because he doesn't love us and that he's a deadbeat, what would replace that?
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Thread Starter- Sanshi
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Re: You cannot resent and desire at once
You are the reason for what happens in your life and how people behave towards you. So, when you understand that, you see that you can't blame other people for how they act towards you and you don't even need to forgive, because it was you who attracted it and you were unconscious of it, so not even a reason to blame yourself.
Take a look at that:
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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I need an affirmation that feels good! Not something that invalidates and doesn't feel right.
Thank you all so much!!!!
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