Think I read on a post here somewhere that this is your inner self or whatever telling you things are wrong, you're in the wrong situation etc when you feel uncomfortable and unhappy.

I'm in a work situation where I'm theoretically redundant in early February. Whilst I don't want to be out of work and would happily stay until I got the right job, things happen that make me feel uncomfortable.

For example my colleagues are overly giddy and chatty to the detriment of getting on with work and the manager is the worst of all for it. She likes to hold court. We had her telling us how late in she will be tomorrow because of how pissed she's going to be tonight  and she's always swearing. It's impossible for me to work, focus and concentrate in this environment. They're always fooling around and I can't cope with it. My nerves get shredded and I often go out of the room to escape the cacophony.

I'm outgoing and friendly normally and socialise with my friends a great deal, and also in my book group, history group, sewing club and gym, but at work I'm private and beyond friendly chat I'll go no further.

I want to work with sensible people who get on and do a good job whilst being friendly and professional.

I also have ADD and this environment is useless for me to work in productively.

So then, is this serendipity telling me I don't belong there and there's somewhere better for me to work?

Last edited by PrettyFlamingo (12/15/2016 4:05 pm)