Once things manifest, you should behave naturally and not overthink things. While knowing that you're in a spot where you're creating situations. 

You're going to the movies on Sunday.  He knows the fight was silly.  Everyone is fine and all is well.  It's nothing to work yourself up over.

Avaelle wrote:

Once things manifest, you should behave naturally and not overthink things. While knowing that you're in a spot where you're creating situations. 

You're going to the movies on Sunday.  He knows the fight was silly.  Everyone is fine and all is well.  It's nothing to work yourself up over.

Yeah maybe I should just think he has a lot of work and don't want to annoy me with it.

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Alycat1110 wrote:

What about if you thought about it just as a normal couple having an argument. Just because he expressed himself does not mean the relationship is over or it's in turmoil it just is a couple having a normal argument.That way maybe you can let it go. 
 

That sounds good :0 guess I'll try that. Nothing is broken, everything is fine, he'll come down and then everything will be fine again thanks! I like that idea! But you wouldn't text him either?

Stop embedding that there is something wrong.  Even when you make the panic type of posts here,  it is like you're putting out that there is something to be worried about. Once you're in a good place,  aren't worried etc. I don't see an issue with texting him first because he had already came back.  But, if you aren't there - you'd find yourself hovering over your phone which wouldn't help.