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Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly,
You can have whatever you want!! Don't worry. Everytime you think about anything that makes you upset, ask yourself if you want to live the same old life that you have been living or if you want a change. I know it seems hard to believe but we just have to believe it before we see it!
You can do this!!πΒ Β
Thank you so much for your encouragement! Thankyou so much blessedck! Yea, I'm still working on the doubting and believe part. I'm still scared that "if we gone NC for so long, will we still feel the same...?" Like we've missed a part of each other's life... will we still love each other and feel like we used to?...I'm working on the past bad experiences..so I used hooponopono to heal myself but it's not working...Hisoneandonly,
You're welcome!! Don't worry about the NC because if you keep thinking about it then that's all you will get. I know it's hard not to think about what you are currently seeing or bad experiences, but I realized I'm not gaining anything by thinking about the past or negative events. Honestly, I feel hurt and crappy after thinking about the past and I realized what is the point especially since I can't go in the past to change it.
But if you think that good things are possible then you will see that your life can change! Patience and blind faith are hard keep but it will be worth it! Good luck!
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After reading this, I felt that I can just ignore what have happened and work on NOW. Now, I'm going to attract him back to my life and have what I want!
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Why is there so many limiting beliefs. Urgh
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Turn your focus away from them. Keep turning your attention to the wonderful future you can create with your guy
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Cherished wrote:
Turn your focus away from them. Keep turning your attention to the wonderful future you can create with your guy
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How do I know am I in the right track or not?
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If you feel better, feel relief, feel happier, calm, peaceful, hopeful.. Then you're on the right track.
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
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Thank you so much for your encouragement! Thankyou so much blessedck! Yea, I'm still working on the doubting and believe part. I'm still scared that "if we gone NC for so long, will we still feel the same...?" Like we've missed a part of each other's life... will we still love each other and feel like we used to?...I'm working on the past bad experiences..so I used hooponopono to heal myself but it's not working...Hisoneandonly,
You're welcome!! Don't worry about the NC because if you keep thinking about it then that's all you will get. I know it's hard not to think about what you are currently seeing or bad experiences, but I realized I'm not gaining anything by thinking about the past or negative events. Honestly, I feel hurt and crappy after thinking about the past and I realized what is the point especially since I can't go in the past to change it.
But if you think that good things are possible then you will see that your life can change! Patience and blind faith are hard keep but it will be worth it! Good luck!Β
After reading this, I felt that I can just ignore what have happened and work on NOW. Now, I'm going to attract him back to my life and have what I want!
Woohoo!! I'm so proud of you!!
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Nope, I'm still not on the right track..
I keep on come back to the physical reality. The high vibration only last for a few hours.. then doubt creeps in and everything, I keep on thinking bout what if he have someone else now or texting someone else now or whatever things like that! I know thoughts becomes things, and when it pops up in my mind, I got more insecure and scared because I know it would come true. I guess it's driving me insane now. Fighting it makes me so tired.
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Now, even people on the other forum ask me to attract someone better and not him... giving up on him is not something I want...
They also makes me thinks that I don't love my guy and I only want him back just because of my ego. What if, it's true that he's not the right guy... gah, I really want him. I love him. Even though he did a lot of shifty things to me, I still forgive and be with him. Is this loving him? They make me doubt. What if, universe just give me some other guy...but all I want is only him...
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You're discussing all of your negative thoughts on TWO forums?! Is the other also an LOA forum?
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You're discussing all of your negative thoughts on TWO forums?! Is the other also an LOA forum?
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It's where I know veronica.. I told them the break up thing a long time ago. Then I told them about the doubts, then that member just came up and said those like "be with someone else better". I was desperately wanted things to get fixed. I know it sucks.
Ps. I know loa from there but i don't know what happened there and it turns out so many conflicts and naysayers and so on. But there's still a few comes and supports a lot.
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