Thank you so much!!!

Sanshi wrote:

yellowrose wrote:

So what I think about him will be how he behaves towards me?

Basically yes. The crucial point is that you think new thoughts about him before his behaviour changes. The only reason why we experience the personality of a person as relatively stable is because we observe them and by observing them we recreate the same patterns of behaviour in them over and over again.

So, if we are seeing patterns repeating that we don't wish to experience about them, what do we do?  Just focus on all the positive aspects of them? their behaviour?

Little Red Robin wrote:

jensherratt wrote:

No. Only you create your reality. If it's not your desire to be with them it doesn't really exist in them either because when you get a TRUE desire to be with someone they have the desire to be with you too if that makes sense.

So, our desiring them, makes them more likely to desire us?  Our desire for them creates a reality for them to desire us so that the universe can give us what we want?
 

 
You wouldn't have a desire if you couldn't achieve it..

yellowrose wrote:

What if I started to think that he has girlfriend? Could I create that for him?

 
If he wanted it as well because that happened to me but you don't want to focus on that because you add energy to their relationship

yellowrose wrote:

I mean if it is someone who is trying to attract me, not the person I'm trying to attract. I've started to think that he likes someone else, but I was wondering if I could create that he is in another relationship.

I have a little different point of view on it than jensherratt. My answer is a clear yes. You don't need his permission or his will. You can shift to the reality in which it is so.