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I realized that with all my other manifestations there was some kind of action, but with manifesting my love I can't take action (ex: reach out) so can this still happen for me?
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Yes, anything is possible if you believe.Β You can act each day. Act like he's there. Make his place at the dinner table, if the passenger seat is the "junk catcher" clean it so he has somewhere to seat etc.
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I've started sleeping on one side of the bed so he can have a spot next to me, also decluttered my room so he can have space for his stuff and obviously space for me. I've also made a point of imagining conversations, starting to go to lala land with this but if you want to ignore your reality you've got to disregard it entirely and live in the reality you prefer.Β
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Just make sure everything is present tense. Clean so that he can relax when he gets home from work vs cleaning to make space when he comes back because that still identifies that he isn't there.
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I really don't go with the clearing half the wardrobe out, setting a place at the table (not that I ever eat at the table anyway!) - who's to say that the other person would move in with you and use that half of the wardrobe/bed permanently? Β You could move into a new place together. And with all the clothes and shoes and bags I have - well, not possible!Β
If you did live together then the other person would be an equal participant in the household, so it all feels 1950s housewife to me.Β
I suppose if it gets you into the mindset of being with that person then it helps, but for my own part I would find it more like playing silly games. Β Not criticising or trying to pour cold water on anyone's techniques, just my own feelings and to add to the debate. Β I'd love to know if anyone has had success with this method. Β I suppose because I don't personally believe in that, it wouldn't work for me, but possibly something else would.
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These are just examples.Β People can do things that fit their situations. If you view it as playing silly games, then that is what it will be.Β
As for success with this method,Β it definitely moved me out of the missing them stage, crying and feeling down.Β
What I wanted to share this morning, is that I visualize having a child with him. I've been doing this. This week, I received a Welcome to Motherhood kit from a baby supply vendor.Β Yes,Β I will register as if I am pregnant.
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Nova74 wrote:
I realized that with all my other manifestations there was some kind of action, but with manifesting my love I can't take action (ex: reach out) so can this still happen for me?
You shift universes vibrationally, not with physical action. Physical action can be fun, but isn't necessary.
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Different strokes for different folks
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I'm in a really difficult situation regarding making space, I'm living with someone and there's a lot of their stuff in my room because there's nowhere to put it and they take up so much space, I've even let them have my wardrobe because theirs is full and all my clothes are in a suitcase. I currently can't move out and I wouldn't kick them out, I asked if they would have a clear out but all their stuff us sentimental to them and they are a massive hoarder. Im saving up for a place of my own but I do others things like have conversations with my bf in y head and I pretend he's with me, I shower daily and keep clothes clean. I've tidied up the room the best I can but all my mates stuff is cluttering it up
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You don't have to contact him to take action or even declutter. Just by raising your vibrations and learning to love yourself is some form of action