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It's hard seeing pics like that but from past experience when people see their ex they always try to look happy even when they're not deep down, just to try and make you jealous you're right it is all false!, if I were to see pics like that I would believe he is doing it because he misses you and wants you back and that he's just trying to make you jealous, it's your reality and you can believe what you want. Just thought this might help as a different way of looking at the situation turning a negative into a positive π
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sunny wrote:
Amy, if this is the case, then why teach anyone about LOA? Wouldn't you want to keep this knowledge to yourself so that you don't have to compete with anyone? I'm not addressing you, I'm just asking in general. Everyone creates their reality whether they are aware of the LOA or not. The ones that are aware of it have the opportunity to choose to deliberately work with it. But there is never any competition either way. Two people can have the same person. If this wasn't the case, then everything that is taught about the LOA -- no limitations, everything is possible, is a lie. This is how we are supposed to all be creating our lives. And if we all have this knowledge and create our lives, that would be a LOT of competition, according to your view.
Just something I wanted to point out because viewing it this way is pretty discouraging.
Because of that, unfortunately, knowledge about LOA is kept secretin a wa,average individual doesn't know about it, .really few people know about it..like in ancient time knowledge about math was kept secret. People should know about LOA but it is always somehow kept withing groups
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Amy wrote:
I see LOA as a natural law, you can have everything, but not anything. If you can't imagine wooden stone or round triangle,you can't have it. So I think 2 persons can't have the same person at the same time. and realisticly few who know about loa and rs can influence others more than ones creating by default..I'm not saying it it good or bad,just is
But it is just my view
My view is that everyone creates their own individual reality. Literally. I create mine entirely, and you create yours entirely. You cannot create anything in mine, and I cannot create anything in yours. The only way you interact with other people is by agreement, and there are many different versions of each individual that you can interact with. The version of the person you interact with is drawn to you by your vibration. Anything you can imagine exists, and if you have the ability to desire something then you have the ability to manifest that desire. If you even have the capability of wondering if something is possible, that tells you it is, or you would not have even been capable of conceiving of the concept, in my view.
Your view is interesting. I've never heard it that way before.
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sunny wrote:
My view is that everyone creates their own individual reality. Literally. I create mine entirely, and you create yours entirely. You cannot create anything in mine, and I cannot create anything in yours. The only way you interact with other people is by agreement, and there are many different versions of each individual that you can interact with. The version of the person you interact with is drawn to you by your vibration. Anything you can imagine exists, and if you have the ability to desire something then you have the ability to manifest that desire. If you even have the capability of wondering if something is possible, that tells you it is, or you would not have even been capable of conceiving of the concept, in my view.
Your view is interesting. I've never heard it that way before.
I agree with part where if you can desire something then you can have it, as I said only thing ou can't have are contradictoring things,but you can't imagine them either!
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Amy wrote:
I agree with part where if you can desire something then you can have it, as I said only thing ou can't have are contradictoring things,but you can't imagine them either!
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But then there's always an "except" added onto "You have NO limitations"...
But, yes, as Sanshi pointed out earlier in this post, you have your view and I have mine, and that's ok
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Amy wrote:
It is a manifestation of some thoughts believes an feelings from the past. Your and his relationship exists and is in the process..keep doing your thing,feel happy,visualise,act as if and complitely ignore that girl,she mustn't exist in your mental world, she is Β unexisting,fictive character. Othervise you are creating more of her in his and your life You have to see you and him together..give time,doesn't matter when will it hapen, 2 weeks, 6 months or a year and a half..just be persistant and know he is yours
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I agree - I had these fears of him moving on quickly and doing a rebound when we broke up and haha.. its happened! I really have learnt so much, I love myself and I know I am the most important person.
I won't give up, I know it's a rebound and it doesn't mean anything. I'm still going to visualise and send him love, because I do love him. I'm just going to trust the universe and not force anything - I think this actually really taught me something too about detachment..
Is it bad if I date others?
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Sammy r wrote:
It's hard seeing pics like that but from past experience when people see their ex they always try to look happy even when they're not deep down, just to try and make you jealous you're right it is all false!, if I were to see pics like that I would believe he is doing it because he misses you and wants you back and that he's just trying to make you jealous, it's your reality and you can believe what you want. Just thought this might help as a different way of looking at the situation turning a negative into a positive π
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No I agree, thanks Sammy I know everything he said to me about how he felt was true. He used to cry when we discussed breaking up. I know I'm the best he's had, I know no one will love him like I do and I know he adores me.
I'm jut a bit disappointed in him for posting, it was a shock.
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From what I believe, we either get what we want or something similar which will give us the same feeling.
There might be a time where you just feel like you don't want this specific person because you found someone better. Thats your reality created.
Now your previous specific person can be taken by someone else who wanted him, but according to your feelings, you found someone who gives you the same feeling as you'd get If you manifested that previous person.
Therefore, there is no competition and there's no loss.
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happyhan20 wrote:
Sammy r wrote:
It's hard seeing pics like that but from past experience when people see their ex they always try to look happy even when they're not deep down, just to try and make you jealous you're right it is all false!, if I were to see pics like that I would believe he is doing it because he misses you and wants you back and that he's just trying to make you jealous, it's your reality and you can believe what you want. Just thought this might help as a different way of looking at the situation turning a negative into a positive π
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No I agree, thanks Sammy I know everything he said to me about how he felt was true. He used to cry when we discussed breaking up. I know I'm the best he's had, I know no one will love him like I do and I know he adores me.
I'm jut a bit disappointed in him for posting, it was a shock.
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No problem, just that's how I would deal with that situation, but I don't bother looking at anything about my ex I just try to believe what I want to believe, and in the past I would be upset about it but a lot of the loa techers say about changing your perspective about situations then you've changed, and turn things into a positive π