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So I've been doing so well, I was so positive and I've been doing visualisation, RS and a bit of scripting when I felt like it.. I had no doubts and really felt good.
Today I quickly checked Instagram and bam.. the first thing I see is a post by my love.. he took a picture of a girl ice skating and tagged her, she did the same with him. My heart sunk and I was in shock. I ended up unfollowing him and blocking him, I just couldn't bare to see anything else..
I called my friend who had just seen it herself. Now, I felt sad and I did cry but I'm surprised at how not sad I've been. I feel like with this process I really have learnt to love myself and because I've learnt to appreciate so many things, I started to see how I really didn't need to depend on him (or any guy) for happiness. After today I appreciated my friends even more.
All day I've thought on and off. I'm more disappointed in him, it's only been 2 months since we broke up and it was pretty mutual, however when we ended he was the one who said 'I don't want to rush into anything else, I'm not looking for anything else.. I love you and believe me it's going to take a long time to get over you' and then this.. 2 months.
Guys, I don't know what to do. I have put so much into this, and I know the universe has got my desire and it's been made.. but now I feel like 'why bother?' It's like I feel I should just look fo someone else. Like I feel upset, but not as upset or broken as I know I would have felt if this were a month ago.
Of course I'm still focusing on me, as I really am fine on my own. I just keep saying to myself 'This is a rebound' 'She won't treat him as well as I did'.
I've read so many success stories where there other half has had a relationship and they've got them back despite this rebound. I'm just so lost. He never posted pictures of me and him, and he has with her.
I really do love him, he's special.
I've had a lot of interest from other guys and so many compliments, but I turned others down because I want him. Now I'm thinking I shouldn't..
Can you guys advise?
Thank you β€οΈ
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A perspective:
He's posting her because no one has been able to make him feel the way you did.Β They can't because you're his love.Β You have something special for him that none of the other women can match. He's yours.
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Avaelle wrote:
A perspective:
He's posting her because no one has been able to make him feel the way you did.Β They can't because you're his love.Β You have something special for him that none of the other women can match. He's yours.
Really? It's made me think that everything was a lie. I mean I never posted much about him because for me I didn't like sharing much on social media - it looks false.
I just don't understand why he has, he knows I'm gonna see it.
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It is a manifestation of some thoughts believes an feelings from the past. Your and his relationship exists and is in the process..keep doing your thing,feel happy,visualise,act as if and complitely ignore that girl,she mustn't exist in your mental world, she is Β unexisting,fictive character. Othervise you are creating more of her in his and your life You have to see you and him together..give time,doesn't matter when will it hapen, 2 weeks, 6 months or a year and a half..just be persistant and know he is yours
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Does it matter who he is with?
Does it matter If he likes another girl tommorow?
Does it matter if he's hugging another woman?
Or...
Does it matter about the fact that no girl in his life can ever reach his subconscious mind via connection and send love like you did?
Does it matter about the fact that at the end, his going to chase you because your love has been sent to him regardless of distance?
Does it matter that you've come across things like LOA, RS and Sending Love via connection and know about the fact that you can change anything and attract anyone back?
Be thankful to God/Universe, be happy, be open to all possibilities, send love unconditionally, script, make yourself a priority.
You are very lucky, you've actually learned to reach this person out with mental connection and make that person feel every bit of your love REGARDLESS of the distance. You're so lucky, distance is no barrier, you know this.
That girl who you saw... Lol... She doesn't know what you know? She can't do what you can do? She can't make him feel what you can make him feel?
There was no need to unfollow or block, all you had to do is laugh, because you know yourself, possibilities are endless Naturally and LOA way.
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@AceWay123 Β Β Exactly!! If you think about it, only like cca 5% of people know and believe in loa and rs! So you are 99,9% only girl in his life that can consciously get him back and no other girl is your competition. I always say, the ones who have this knowledge are uncomparable more powerful than ones that don't
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happyhan20 wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
A perspective:
He's posting her because no one has been able to make him feel the way you did.Β They can't because you're his love.Β You have something special for him that none of the other women can match. He's yours.Really? It's made me think that everything was a lie. I mean I never posted much about him because for me I didn't like sharing much on social media - it looks false.
I just don't understand why he has, he knows I'm gonna see it.
Laugh at it.Β She doesn't stand a chance.
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Amy wrote:
@AceWay123 Β Β Exactly!! If you think about it, only like cca 5% of people know and believe in loa and rs! So you are 99,9% only girl in his life that can consciously get him back and no other girl is your competition. I always say, the ones who have this knowledge are uncomparable more powerful than ones that don't
Amy, if this is the case, then why teach anyone about LOA? Wouldn't you want to keep this knowledge to yourself so that you don't have to compete with anyone? I'm not addressing you, I'm just asking in general. Everyone creates their reality whether they are aware of the LOA or not. The ones that are aware of it have the opportunity to choose to deliberately work with it. But there is never any competition either way. Two people can have the same person. If this wasn't the case, then everything that is taught about the LOA -- no limitations, everything is possible, is a lie. This is how we are supposed to all be creating our lives. And if we all have this knowledge and create our lives, that would be a LOT of competition, according to your view.
Just something I wanted to point out because viewing it this way is pretty discouraging.
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sunny wrote:
Amy wrote:
@AceWay123 Β Β Exactly!! If you think about it, only like cca 5% of people know and believe in loa and rs! So you are 99,9% only girl in his life that can consciously get him back and no other girl is your competition. I always say, the ones who have this knowledge are uncomparable more powerful than ones that don't
Amy, if this is the case, then why teach anyone about LOA? Wouldn't you want to keep this knowledge to yourself so that you don't have to compete with anyone? I'm not addressing you, I'm just asking in general. Everyone creates their reality whether they are aware of the LOA or not. The ones that are aware of it have the opportunity to choose to deliberately work with it. But there is never any competition either way. Two people can have the same person. If this wasn't the case, then everything that is taught about the LOA -- no limitations, everything is possible, is a lie. This is how we are supposed to all be creating our lives. And if we all have this knowledge and create our lives, that would be a LOT of competition, according to your view.
Just something I wanted to point out because viewing it this way is pretty discouraging.
I agree, but we just had this conversation a few days ago. In the end, everyone has the choice to believe in what they want to believe. I also prefer the empowered way of seeing things. Just the thought of competition makes me feel bad and therefore it's definitely not true for me.
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I see LOA as a natural law, you can have everything, but not anything. If you can't imagine wooden stone or round triangle,you can't have it. So I think 2 persons can't have the same person at the same time. and realisticly few who know about loa and rs can influence others more than ones creating by default..I'm not saying it it good or bad,just is
But it is just my view
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