1 - PrettyFlamingo
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It is very, very hard to remain positive
I am due to finish my work contract at the end of January. I have been on redeployment at work but have been turned down for all three posts I went for.
This is becoming really impossible for me.
The turnaround time between applications and interviews is very short so there is very little time for actual preparation, never mind visualisation and so on. Though I have visualised myself in these posts, felt positive and upbeat, etc, known, and believed, that I have excellent skills and can do high level jobs.
Still, nothing.
Just wanted to rant, really. Am in total despair as the consequences are terrifying.
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- Avaelle
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Re: It is very, very hard to remain positive
*You're a pro!!! An expert. Any time is enough for prepartion* ;-)
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Re: It is very, very hard to remain positive
Avaelle wrote:
*You're a pro!!! An expert. Any time is enough for prepartion* ;-)
Doesn't feel like that.
I feel that without the basic building block of being able to provide for myself, I have nothing else. Relationships and material stuff don't matter without that. Without a proper job, I cannot keep a roof over my head, feed myself or my animals or run a home. That is the baseline for me and without that, and the fear of not having that has sent me into ultimate depression.
Without wanting to trivialise anything anyone else is going through, I wish all I had to be concerned about was that somebody was my ex and not my partner.
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The Universe will give you whatever you want, anything. It acts off of how you feel , what you focus on and what you show it.
If your mood is xyz, it will send more things to make you feel xyz. No matter what type of mood it is. If you keep showing it what you don't want, that is what you get.
You have to truly get up and picture yourself already having the job. Think of what you will do with the job security. Is there a certain outfit you'll wear? Go to the store and try it on. Etc.
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Re: It is very, very hard to remain positive
That is the baseline for me and without that, and the fear of not having that has sent me into ultimate depression.
That's your guidance that's telling you that every thought about lack istn't true from the perspective of your Inner Being. It's a strong signal that you are heading in a direction you don't want to go.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: It is very, very hard to remain positive
That is the baseline for me and without that, and the fear of not having that has sent me into ultimate depression.
That's your guidance that's telling you that every thought about lack istn't true from the perspective of your Inner Being. It's a strong signal that you are heading in a direction you don't want to go.
That's interesting never thought of it that way
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I actually manifested my dream job through LOA.....I came here for someone specific but actually manifested a job I wanted since 4 years!!!!!
I left my job after my break up and actually didnt start looking anywhere just wanted to take a break, then slowly is started appearing and it was a sign that I was going the right way....then one fine day the phone rang and it was from that dream media organisation i was dying to join and always though t of being a part of!! Vizualisation and all is fine, I feel u need THE CONFIDENCE while appearing for an interview....if u feel I didnt succeed ealier so this timeit might not work out....trust me IT WONT! IU behave as if u have a few jobs already in your hands and u ARE THE ONE WHO IS CHOOSING.....with that confidence u appear and see it will work your way!! Wish u well and lots of luck!!!
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- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: It is very, very hard to remain positive
I actually manifested my dream job through LOA.....I came here for someone specific but actually manifested a job I wanted since 4 years!!!!!
I left my job after my break up and actually didnt start looking anywhere just wanted to take a break, then slowly is started appearing and it was a sign that I was going the right way....then one fine day the phone rang and it was from that dream media organisation i was dying to join and always though t of being a part of!! Vizualisation and all is fine, I feel u need THE CONFIDENCE while appearing for an interview....if u feel I didnt succeed ealier so this timeit might not work out....trust me IT WONT! IU behave as if u have a few jobs already in your hands and u ARE THE ONE WHO IS CHOOSING.....with that confidence u appear and see it will work your way!! Wish u well and lots of luck!!!
That's a good story!
I'm less concerned with it being a dream job at the moment (though that would be great!) - my priority is to have A job that pays my mortgage and bills. In less than two months my current job won't be there anymore, and I still have to eat and pay the bills and keep a roof over my head.
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I feel just stop saying that to yourself that after 2 months...blah blah....!!! After two months I am joining another superb job and I am attending a few interviews to just see which one suits me!!! Say something like this...u are constantly saying something which u dont want....just feel the fact that a new job is already there and u are finishing the last tenure here.....its just 2 months away..start preparing......its just 2 months away!!
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