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Difficult Day....
Hey guys,
Today is my Love's birthday. I have decided that I am not going to wish him. I think I am sad because I am not with him but I am flip floppy with how I feel. Sometimes it's anxiety and fear but I can totally change it around and then I am being grateful that he will be in my life one day. So i totally know I am living in this reality. Any thoughts on how to make this day better? 
- Alycat1110
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ps. it isn't scaring me that he isn't coming back I'm just sad.
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Thread Starter- YesIWILL
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I'm so sorry to hear this 
If it were me, since it comes around only once a year, I'd still wish them, but that's entirely just my opinion. I can't say I'm exactly known for making the best choices...
Does thinking about him help you stay happy? If it's a day around him, why don't you do RS/PW and send him love energy? Why not visualize you two together for a while? 
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Sorry you're having a bad day
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You are with him. ;-) Take a bubble bath, watch the sun go down or do whatever you can to RELAX! Then, this evening - do a visualization spending his birthday together!!! Have fun!!!
The Universe is your playground.
- Alycat1110
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Thanks guys!!
I sent him heart energy this morning and so I know he got it. I'm with him always just like he is with me always. I didn't wish him because I wasn't sure that it was the best decision for me. So I decided that since I couldn't come to a conclusion as whether to do, I just decided not too. I know it is the right decision. But it still sucks you know?
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Thread Starter- Colonel Roosevelt
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Hey, today was my brother's birthday too. We got ourselves fried rice, fried chicken, and a Boston cream pie lol.
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We all get bad days so don't beat yourself up its ok. Just take a deep breath and KNOW he is in your life now and try to be happy. You will never miss another one of his birthdays. Remember to act as if he is with you and you are having a great party with him. I hope you get to feeling better soon.
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One bad day doesn't matter anyway. You can start anew every day. Last year on my birthday, it had been our 3 years anniversary, but somehow I survived it. From now one, everything will go uphill. His birthday come up again next year and this time, you will spend it with him.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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