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Sanshi I know you are so right but how do you do that? I have been trying no contact so that she will initiate contact with me and I assume that she is going to text but then at the end of the day she doesn't and I get sad again. How can I break this cycle? How do I convince myself that she will text me first?
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It's only hard, because you focus on What Is. If you could focus on what you want, you wouldn't miss him, because you would experience kissing him and hugging him in your mind. This would evoke the same feelings within you that you had, if you would actually doing it. I know, you want the "real" experience, but I think one thing you have to learn to really get this whole LoA thing is that your imagination is as real as your so called reality. When I heard that the first time, it sounded to me as if people would try to convince me to be delusional so that I wouldn't notice that my reality is still the same. Yeah, I want to convince you to be delusional, but if you are, your reality can't stay the same. If you could be satisfied with your imagination just for a while without comparing it to reality, you would be surprised how fast change can happen.
Meet up with him vibrationally. Think about what you'd like to do with him and set a date. Go there in your imagination on that date, feel the good feelings of love, fun, joy, whatever. When you wake up the next day, remember how great the date was and go there again with your feelings. Don't think about reality just for a while.
I'm confused now... does that mean I have to focus on that all day long? But I don't know if I could keep the focus ..
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Sanshi I know you are so right but how do you do that? I have been trying no contact so that she will initiate contact with me and I assume that she is going to text but then at the end of the day she doesn't and I get sad again. How can I break this cycle? How do I convince myself that she will text me first?
Oh god I know what you mean ... sometimes I'm feeling so happy and it's so easy to imaging all these stuff ... but then I suddenly only can see what is in 'this reality' and I start to miss him... if I can't keep the focus is it a possibility to try to ignore the reality instead and think about other things instead?
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I'm confused now... does that mean I have to focus on that all day long? But I don't know if I could keep the focus ..
No, don't worry. You could do that for a few minutes and then don't think about him at all. But you have to focus in that direction every time you think about him, that's the crucial point.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi I know you are so right but how do you do that? I have been trying no contact so that she will initiate contact with me and I assume that she is going to text but then at the end of the day she doesn't and I get sad again. How can I break this cycle? How do I convince myself that she will text me first?
Reading that, I don't think you understood what I wrote at all, because your question don't even fit to my post. Where did I told you that you should think that she WILL initiate contact? You first have to understand what I wrote before you can aply it and the application is mental work. So it won't be easy in the beginning and you have to get through this stage.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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I'm confused now... does that mean I have to focus on that all day long? But I don't know if I could keep the focus ..
No, don't worry. You could do that for a few minutes and then don't think about him at all. But you have to focus in that direction every time you think about him, that's the crucial point.
Perfect sanshi now I got it! Thank you sooo much for your help 
! And the best advice is to not send the messages I get this strange thought I shouldn't send it. Lol guess I could know that earlier that's not a good idea haha.
Thanks sanshi I really hope I can stay in that mindset now.
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I'm confused now... does that mean I have to focus on that all day long? But I don't know if I could keep the focus ..
No, don't worry. You could do that for a few minutes and then don't think about him at all. But you have to focus in that direction every time you think about him, that's the crucial point.
Perfect sanshi now I got it! Thank you sooo much for your help
Thanks sanshi I really hope I can stay in that mindset now.
Glad it helped. Maybe you will have your setbacks, but it's doable.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi THANK YOU for your contributions. I've been reading through this post and it's helping me ALOT.
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Sanashi I have to thank you as well. This brought me so much clarity! I am definitely bookmarking this thread!
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Yeah Sanshi's answer was amazing! It was such an Aha moment and eventhough I had a stupid conversation with my love yesterday morning after reading this I totally forgot about it and totally got my faith back and focused on my end result and in the afternoon he suddenly even askes me out of the blue how my day was going :D and a friend even asked me what has happened because he noticed how happy I was ^^!
Really Sanshi this was the best advice and explanation I got by now!
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