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Cherished wrote:
Yes, of course it will! Just keep reaching for those kinds of thoughts. Empower yourself. Hold a nice thought for just 16 seconds, without contradicting it and LOA will match it with another thought the same! Anyone can think something good for 16 seconds! π
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Cherished, why is our thoughts just go crazy itself in the morning? Like it keeps telling me he don't love me and so on, in this situation, what should I do?
I had a good dream that he wanted to give us a chance!
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I'm scared that being neutral, is feeling giving up. Because I starts to accept that he won't come back and so on. Should I tell myself that "no, he will come back" " we will have a great relationship together" ? Or anything to suggest? And it hurts when i feel that I'm giving up.
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You aren't giving up! You're giving up your negative feelings! That's all. You're thoughts aren't something separate happening to you. You're thinking them.. Which means you can very deliberately choose something else instead. And in fact, when you sleep you are totally in the vortex, aligned with source energy! So if you don't start with negative thoughts when you wake up, you have a chance to be happy!
Stop the thoughts quickly by thinking "he's mine, I just need to relax and remember to reach for happy thoughts!
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Cherished, I felt the urge to tell you about the dream, it was weird tho. He was ignoring me at first then I call out to him then he just came , I asked can we give each other one more chance please? Then he smiled and said yes and we kissed passionately. But there's another girl, standing right next to us and said "move on! He just don't love you! Can't you see what have he did? And all he suffers because of you?" Then I turn around and hug my guy and say "I misses you" " I know you hated us arguing, I'll have less arguments with you, but these days without you I can't have any arguments with you lets me feel so sad" "please give us one more chance, and we will make it right" he just agreed with me. Then the girl just got pissed and gone. Then my guy and I had a great time together ;)
This morning, I saw another forum, asked me to live like he's back to me and having a wonderful relationship with him! But I don't know how and it confused me a lot. Once I touch my phone and see no text from him I'll get a little bit sad but I'll tell myself "that's what I attracted in the past and I'm attracting him to text me soon"... but still don't have a lots of faith!
P.s. I read the scripting threat from this forum! It really helps to shift the feelings! Does reading it helps with my situation? Like maybe I'm reading others story but attracting the same into mine?
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Anything that you can do that makes you feel relief is on the right track.
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Sure, I'll try my best to find things to let myself to be more relief. I don't know how to stay in the feeling of acting if. I don't know how to act if
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Would it even took months or years to let him come back or love me back or it might never will?
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It saddens me when people says controlling him to love me isn't love. Please help me..
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NO. You actually cannot control anybody to love you. But what you CAN do is love yourself and love the other person regardless of how they feel. And if you can do that successfully, they will become attracted to your vibration and CHOOSE to love you back.
Let me give you an example. Last night one of my ex boyfriends contacted me. I was needy, desperate, and never happy with myself when we were together. I had no self love. None. My whole life revolved around him. It was very unhealthy. Interestingly, I am a completely different person now, I don't NEED anybody to make me happy. I've found that contentment within myself. My ex and I caught up a while ago, and it was lovely! We became friends again, and last night he emailed me to tell me that I've turned into the most beautiful woman he's ever met, both inside and out. That I have the biggest heart he's ever known, and that he is absolutely proud of me for staying true to myself. Why is he suddenly feeling that way? Because I am in alignment. I'm in the vortex. I'm living each day in joy and in love! And he can feel it.
It was wonderful to hear him say that. There was a time in my life where I was acting exactly as you are now, wanting him back. I don't anymore. But can you see that he has come from nowhere back into my life because we once had a connection and he can FEEL my energy? He can feel that I have let go of resistance, and he has been attracted back to me by my love and happiness for MYSELF. Do you understand what I'm trying to articulate here?
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So i shouldnt want him back? And just give up? And see that we might not getting back together and just love myself? And just till one day i dont love him anymore then he'll want me back? But at that time i dont want him anymore?