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Life events affecting my vibe...
So this weekend something tragic happened in my family, I have been very upset about it. I am trying to stay positive about it but right now I don't know what will happen its very complicated.
I am worried this will affect manifesting my love back, he has actually been nice about it and been there for me. He shows signs of kindness and that he cares then all of a sudden he also just shuts off from me and acts so cold. I have been shifting my thoughts though which seems to be working.
But the stress of my home life has made me feel very low and I cant seem to lift my vibration right now, so i have decided to just feel it and go through it until i feel better.
is this going to affect my relationship with C? I am worried it will ruin things. Thanks xx
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Re: Life events affecting my vibe...
Meg2222 wrote:
So this weekend something tragic happened in my family, I have been very upset about it. I am trying to stay positive about it but right now I don't know what will happen its very complicated.
I am worried this will affect manifesting my love back, he has actually been nice about it and been there for me. He shows signs of kindness and that he cares then all of a sudden he also just shuts off from me and acts so cold. I have been shifting my thoughts though which seems to be working.
But the stress of my home life has made me feel very low and I cant seem to lift my vibration right now, so i have decided to just feel it and go through it until i feel better.
is this going to affect my relationship with C? I am worried it will ruin things. Thanks xx
It will affect you if you let it. If you put enough negative thought into something negative that you were thinking it would have to end up that way. Focus on your family issue and let him be there for you. Ask for what you need and let it be okay with what he can provide. I sincerely hope that everything gets figured out with your family <3
- Meg2222
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I mean, I'm not going to let it affect things with C, but it has affected me and I don't think positive affirmations, scripting will help this situation with my family right now.
He was also going to come and see me yesterday, but he couldn't get to me as his van had broken, then he was going to come and see me today but couldn't as he has been trying to sort out a car. I am so sick of my negative belief system as I now understand its me. I am trying to shift my thoughts but the negatives come back. Its so frustrating I don't know why I am like this. I want to change and change my belief system to I can attract my desires but for some reason I keep going back to the same old thoughts. I don't want to be like this anymore! 
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Thread Starter- Jovana
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Re: Life events affecting my vibe...
Don't be so hard to yourself. If you have specific situation in your family it's very hard to be in positive state.
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I mean, I'm not going to let it affect things with C, but it has affected me and I don't think positive affirmations, scripting will help this situation with my family right now.
He was also going to come and see me yesterday, but he couldn't get to me as his van had broken, then he was going to come and see me today but couldn't as he has been trying to sort out a car. I am so sick of my negative belief system as I now understand its me. I am trying to shift my thoughts but the negatives come back. Its so frustrating I don't know why I am like this. I want to change and change my belief system to I can attract my desires but for some reason I keep going back to the same old thoughts. I don't want to be like this anymore!
Aww love, don't be so hard on yourself. You are going through a rough time and you have to be patient and kind with yourself. Things will get better and they always do. What would happen if you just felt your feelings for today and were able to just let yourself be down. LOA doesn't say you have to feel good all of the time but it surely gives you the tools that when you feel like poop, that you can pick yourself back up. But FEEL your anger, fear or sadness and know that it isn't forever.
I'm glad that you are reaffirming that nothing will affect your relationship. Stay strong!
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I think it's really better to first go through whatever you have to go through. You have all time of the world to manifest him back. You aren't in a hurry, right? So deal with whatever you need to deal with to feel better first. You are more important than the relationship with him.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Meg2222
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Thanks guys, you are all so right. I'm always hard on myself I need to stop that as well. As Sanshi just mentioned I need to focus on my family and there is no rush. I can continue on that after my family situation has got better. Thank you for the support. Most people don't understand with the whole LOA and manifesting but you guys do. Thanks again xxxxxxx
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