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I'm back. D is back in my life after a year!!! After my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago I sent D a text saying I hope he's happy he deserves to be happy and he replied!!!
Last night I saw him for the first time in a year and it was amazing. He still doesn't want a relationship but I see how he is witn me!!
All I know is to focus on myself and have gratitude. Am I missing anything?
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That's so amazing, Bellecat. Congrats to you!
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Bellecat wrote:
He still doesn't want a relationship but I see how he is witn me!!
All I know is to focus on myself and have gratitude. Am I missing anything?
Stop telling yourself he doesn't want a relationship, because then you two will never have a relationship. Focus on how good it feels that you two are together!
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This is amazing, Bellecat, after such a long hiatus! Congratulations!
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I completely let go of my ex and now he's come back and it's on again just when D is back in my life. D said he's happy if I am.... that's freaking unconditional love right there!!!!
Last edited by Bellecat (11/28/2016 4:44 pm)
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EEEK that is sooo awesome!!!
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Bellecat wrote:
I completely let go of my ex and now he's come back and it's on again just when D is back in my life. D said he's happy if I am.... that's freaking unconditional love right there!!!!
Well this gave me so much joy reading this. I am so happy for you!!!
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The ex and I have broken up again and I don't want him back. I no longer love him and I don't wish to be stepmom to 5 kids.
D is still talking to me but he's gone distant again.
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I'm feeling down at the moment
D is struggling again and I miss him heaps but he's still staying in contact.
I just need some comfort everyone. My ex (we lasted a week from my birthday) couldn't even spare 5 minutes to make me feel better last week when I was on my break from my new job (I got injured, I'm ok) and that made feel like crap!
Pretending to be in a relationship with D is so hard!!
I need to find me a life to try and help
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piggy720 wrote:
hey girl!
first of all,
screw all those people who tell you to move on.
what do they know about your relationship? it's easy for them to say cuz it's not their relationship. of course I know there are genuine people who were saying it out of a good cause, they may be worrying about you. but really, YOU know your relationship the best, do what YOU want, and what makes YOU happy.
YOU ARE THE CENTER OF YOUR OWN UNIVERSE!
you can create what you want, what you desire
don't think about "now" or "present", that doesn't matter.
What matters is how you treat yourself now, how you can focus yourself on POSITIVE energy.
FOCUS on your desire.
Nothing is impossible.
We will keep you on track ; )
GREAT ADVICE! i will do the same
But im confused...i think you wanted your ex back...or this was another ex....
Can we go out with others during the challenge or is missing energy i should put on get the one i really want back?
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