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I am confused about my ex
Hello!
So my story is that my boyfriend broke up with me in the beginning of October. He broke up with me saying that he does not love me., and denied meeting another girl. I am 24 he is 25 and his new girlfriend is 35 years old. I found out they are together from a friend who saw them and after that I did not spoke to him for like a month. I started reading into LOA and about after two weeks or so he started texting me, liking me on facebook whatever I posted and so on. He wanted to meet up to give me back my radio which he fixed. I went out with a guy bike riding ( my ex likes to go bike riding, I started liking it because of him) and posted pictures and he started asking who is the guy and I said he is just an acquaintance. He then started writing to me and saying stuff like " we could go out for tea or go bike riding or whatever you want". So we went out for a tea he gave me back my radio and gave me his hoodie which I always used when I was at his place saying: " I do not use this so I thought I would give it to you instead of throwing it out... but it will be still mine only you will take care of it" This made me feel very good. It made me think he is saying this to have some sort of connection with me. When we were out for tea he told me a lot of things about his life but nothing about his girlfriend. He said he was ashamed for what he did and that he missed me and that it was bad not knowing anything about me and that he will write down something that he cannot say because he started crying. So I said okay, no pressure and he can write it down and that I forgave him. He hugged me multiple times and cried. From that point we are still talking but he did not write down anything about what he wanted. He started asking for my advice whether to go to Prague from me and trying to help me in various ways. He even said that we could go looking for new skis for me. But yet he was out with his girlfriend on friday and met up with me on sunday. As far as I know he is still with his girlfriend. What should I do? is he just being friendly because he feels sorry or does he regret breaking up with me? I cannot decide...
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Re: I am confused about my ex
Situations don't have a meaning on their own. It depends on how you decide to think about. What meaning would you like the situation to have?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Well I would like this to mean that he is regretting leaving me and wants to be back together... he asked me what are my plans for new years eve.. I felt like he wanted to be with me when we were out for tea. I mean why would he want to help me so much at everything and give me his hoodie as if it were his? He said it's still his so that means that he wants a connection with me. I am waiting for his letter and what does he want to say..
I am really positive and thanking the universe that we went out and had a good time 
I know we will go out again soon.
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Now he is more confusing than ever! is my manifestation starting to work?
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Thread Starter- Alycat1110
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Re: I am confused about my ex
If he is confusing is that how you desired for your manifestation to work, because that is how the Universe is perceiving it. If your "wobbly" then your manifestation will be too that's what Abe says. If it isn't then go back to the drawing board and change it. Get really clear on what it is that you want
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Your thoughts shape your reality, so go back and think about what it is you really want. Write it down if you have to. revise that list until they stick and that'll be your reality.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
Your thoughts shape your reality, so go back and think about what it is you really want. Write it down if you have to. revise that list until they stick and that'll be your reality.
Thanks for the help? Have you manifested back your ex? My ex is being super nice with me and I know this is a godd sign! I am imagining us together everyday.. at night, at work and even writing a journal. I know he is misssing me he even told me this.
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Re: I am confused about my ex
Your thoughts shape your reality, so go back and think about what it is you really want. Write it down if you have to. revise that list until they stick and that'll be your reality.
Thanks for the help? Have you manifested back your ex? My ex is being super nice with me and I know this is a godd sign! I am imagining us together everyday.. at night, at work and even writing a journal. I know he is misssing me he even told me this.
I have manifested him back, then pushed him away again, now working on getting myself back into a good place of alignment. But this stuff works, 100% if you're aligned with it. :D
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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