Hi,

​First of all I would like to thank Veronica for the incredible book that she has made which has completely changed my life. Before going into my problem I would like to mention my entire story so that you can help me out properly. I love a girl in my office. She is not the most beautiful girl but she is the exact person I was looking for the past 4 years. She does have all the qualities that I needed in my wife. Unfortunately she is already engaged. We both had joined the office at the same time. When we met she was going through a sad phase and needed someone to talk to because her current bf was not giving her ample time to listen to her. So I gave her that space so that she can share with me everything. Slowly when I started to know her, I felt in love with her. Without saying any word, I don't know how but she understood that I had started loving her. Rather she forced me to tell her that I love her. I was really happy that I proposed her. I took her to meet my family. One more thing I missed is that she stays alone in the city and her parents stays in different city. So when she met my parents, the first reaction was, where was I 4 years before. Had I been there 4 years ago, she would never have fallen for her current bf. But now she is going to get married with her current bf in February. 

​But then I think negative energy caught on me. I started to think that she is going to leave me in three months and that made me sad and I started crying each and every day. Then finally one day she said that we cannot be even friends anymore. She refused to talk to me in a friendly manner and said that she would never ever go with me anywhere in my car. I was completely shattered. This event happened on 15th of Nov. I went back home and started to search for help in internet to get her back. I had already read "The Secret" quite many a times and I knew the rules. But I was unable to use it for my love. Then I found Veronica's channel and went through her books. From 16th of Nov, I changed myself. The guy who was shattered the day before, was no where to be seen. I started to stay happy. I started to use the 25 day challenge and practiced everything. And it was magical. The girl who refused to be friends anymore and who had also said that she wont sit in my car too, was in my car on 19th of Nov. Now we gel so well in the office as if we are closest of friends. Our relationship is better than before. But there is small knot which I am trying to remove but somehow its not going. So need your help

​The problem is her current bf. As per Veronica, I should not think about her bf. And so I have kept him out of my mind. But she mentions about him quite often in front me which makes me think about him taking away my girl. How to wash him from my mind? Everything is slowly falling to places except for her bf which I am unable to remove from my head. If he is not gone, then I would not be getting my love. Therefore, kindly guide me and help me.

Thanks