Miracle wrote:

Hi guys
This forum help me alot. And now i really feel better. Thank you.
I wan to say something
Yesterday i ask a sign to some support and encouragement, but a friend of mine called me and she said to me about her boy friend and that was exactly like my relationship with my ex . Even the details. and her bf treated her just like my ex.and the reason that he's left her is the same too. (because of his family and he told her forced to marry another girl and...)
Because of that i confused.i wonder that it happend because i had alot of thoughts about my situation and then she called me and i listened to the break up between them that is totally like my ex and i .
Can it be a sign guys to show me that stop my negative thought or what else??
and
I want to know that can i define a specific day for a call from my ex?
For example for my birthday?
Or just want to get him back at the right time?
Thanks again

If you need a definitive answer on when you can expect something, well I would say wait for the right time. You can absolutely manifest someone back on a specific date but if you don't 100% believe that it is going to happen then it is quite difficult. So it ends up creating resistance around it like Sanshi said. 

In response to your friend comparing relationships I think anything that you interpret as sign or an event is just that. If you are currently just starting out with LOA, then you will soon begin to realize that the signs are just manifestations that encourage you to keep going but if you rely on seeing those signs you'e forever going to only be seeing signs and blocking your manifestation. So instead, let it all go, be aligned with yourself and your manifestation will come.