Ps things manifest - instantly or otherwise - when you are a magnet to your desire

You're a magnet to your desire when you are filled with the joy of both being and of having your desire (think my gyro story I told you offline)

The key is to be so identified with that which you seek that it has no choice but to seek you and basically fall right into your lap....

If you say you're waiting, you're always going to be waiting. That's just how it goes. Things can manifest instantly, yes. I've had that happen, I've manifested things I didn't deem as important instantly. It's all about what thoughts you emit and whether you believe them. Live in your ideal reality and your physical reality will catch up, not all changes will be visible. You don't see grass strain to grow, it just flows into existence. Change is always happening though, so just live in the reality you want, it'll manifest. It is law after all. 

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Then if I was able to live whole hearted in the reality that she apologized and wanted to move back in. She would pretty much overnight?

If you are 100% aligned with zero resistance, absolutely. 

I don't have a 100% guarantee right now because I'm still coming to terms with accepting my resisting behaviour so I'm still finding what works but appreciating what you have is good for raising vibration, there's also meditation, EFT Tapping which I haven't tried but heard a whole lot about. Affirmations can be helpful if you can believe what you're saying. 

The best advice I can give you is to not fight resistance, that'll bring you more resistance. Accept it is there and tell yourself this is only your current reality and you can easily change that.