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Help with aligning
Hey everyone,
as some of you may already know I'm trying to attract my girl back and I'm still quite new to the LoA.
Last night I was at a karaoke, when I got home I played a song that I really love and I imagined singing it with my love. It was so powerful that the same night I dreamt about the reconciliation taking place and felt awesome.
I have a couple of questions to help me align better, I'd appreciate so much any help from you:
- When you say I have to be aligned, my doubt is aligned to what? To my girl's vibrations or to my desire? I mean, my desire is the reconciliation and many other good things. What should I align to?
- This is about visualization. My desire is to be in a specific time and place with my girl, 1 year from now. That situation would imply that the reconciliation has already taken place some months before and that we're happy together.
But there are steps in the middle.
So what should I visualize? That particular moment over and over again or visualize freely other circumstances when I have the inspiration?
Thanks a lot
Joe
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Re: Help with aligning
When you doubt that she will ever come back, you are aligned with the reality in which she will never come back. I personally think that "being a vibrational match to a person" is bs. People have misunderstood Abe's words and spread wrong information. You have to be aligned to your desire, not to any person.
Always picture the end result. But it's not only about the visualisation. You are just talking about how you aren't with your girl. Those thoughts create also, this post creates. So it isn't just one hour of visualisation a day and then all thoughts are rushing in again. You have to be consistent with it the whole day.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Help with aligning
Thanks Sanshi, I always appreciate your replies. I think I got it.
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Thread Starter- big_blue
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Re: Help with aligning
JoeGage wrote:
My desire is to be in a specific time and place with my girl, 1 year from now. That situation would imply that the reconciliation has already taken place some months before and that we're happy together.when I have the inspiration?
Just keep in mind, setting a time and a place for a desire to happen can be tricky, especially if said time is approaching fast.
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You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
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Thanks, I know what you mean.
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Thread Starter- InLakEsch
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When you doubt that she will ever come back, you are aligned with the reality in which she will never come back. I personally think that "being a vibrational match to a person" is bs. People have misunderstood Abe's words and spread wrong information. You have to be aligned to your desire, not to any person.
Always picture the end result. But it's not only about the visualisation. You are just talking about how you aren't with your girl. Those thoughts create also, this post creates. So it isn't just one hour of visualisation a day and then all thoughts are rushing in again. You have to be consistent with it the whole day.
Yes well said. I was struggling with this when I started out too. Something that helped me was to let her go. I started becoming more comfortable with the idea that if I didn't get her that would be okay. There are plenty of opportunities in this world. That being said I was not under any circumstance giving up. I still hold her in my heart and focus on what's in my mind. Find something you like to do. I started exercising again and I'm in love with the results. My body hasn't looked OT felt this good in years. Just try to detach from those negative emotions and go forward with you life.
In lak ech. Ancient Mayan for "you are my other me"
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Re: Help with aligning
Just keep in mind, setting a time and a place for a desire to happen can be tricky, especially if said time is approaching fast.
Thanks for this i'd never really thought about it like that. My guy and I are from different Countries, I've been to his but he's never been to mine. I usually visualise him visiting me here, and now reading the above this makes the desire trickier to happen. I think i'll need to do some rethinking on where we are when I visualise, any ideas? 
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