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Me and my guy after a long period of no contact begin talking just randomly ...have spoken twice in 4/5 months...n few times on msgs...
Last time we spoke he wud try to meet but as a friend..he doesn't want anything beyond that for now..though he also says he hasn't moved on..
So.i respected his decision n I.told him.that I will not contact him.till the the time calls on his own(said this with a very heavy heart) coz I felt he was still in a negative place blaming himself and I wasn't(I have forgiven and forgotten)
I know 1000% that he will sure call me.someday whn he is ready
The question is..I have this conference which I every year attend(his city,long distance )and this year coincidentally he is in his city the same.4 days that the conference is(he is studying in a different city presently)
I am surprised at this coincidence but also confused if I shud go to attend and if I do shall I meet him
Last time he spoke he did mention that we ll meet if sometime we r in the same.city..let's see...
So what should I do?
It also excites me to go n see him but also don't want to ruin anything..
Plz advise..
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If you feel you should meet him.. Go meet him but be calm and happy and smiling.... Just go with the flow as veronica says... And shift your reality..... If any negative situation pops do not resist it, don't give it energy, let it flow... Focus on the reality you have created... You already have him.. Don't get upset... Be happy.. Have faith and believeππ
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Go to that conference! Do not question it just have confidence in yourself. Imagine it going very well and everything working in your favor. Do what you would normally do if you were already back together because to get what you want you have to be in the reality of already having it. You wouldn't question this, you would go!
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Wow!thanks for ur help guys...thru out today I have been getting signs that I should go..I feel the same..I want to just spend some awesome time with him without any past conversations coming up...and I want to remind him how much fun we had..I as just worried if I was being impatient or may be not trusting the universe...but also confused between if this is an inspired action or impatience
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Sounds like an inspired action to me!! Forget the past, it is over. You don't have to relive any of that or talk about it. Imagine your conversations being everything but that!! Keep us updatedπ
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Sure...let's see what comes up..have many people to convince before I getto go there...wl keep u updated..
I just scripted the whole scenario what m looking forward toπ
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All the people I needed to convince to let me allow to go there have been convinced...I even managed to find a stay place ..booked tickets
Now I just have to tell him...and manifest him to meet me...π
I will be my best version possible...will remind him of our good times...and I am 1000% sure things will progress from here on...π
( Feels like our old times again where we used to manage to meet somehow...long distance...he is coming nearer day by day...I can feel it)