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I know that my girl is sad now bc she lost her mom 3 weeks ago. She told me she needs some space for now bc not only did she lose her mom but her best friend. I want to give her that space but how can I attract her if her vibration are low now?...how will we align?
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In your version of reality, you can still attract her, your thoughts shape your reality so just imagine you're there comforting her as her partner and that'll become your reality.Β
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It isn't your job or shouldn't be your intention to help her align. When you are aligned to a beautiful and loving relationship and her frequency is aligned with that, you will manifest her from there. What your vibration is should and always be the first thing on your mind. Especially when manifesting because you want to manifest from a positive and high frequency. I'm not saying be there for her because if she would like to include you in her grieving time then you must be there for her. But I wouldn't look at that time as manifesting her back atm. I would more support her while focusing on your manifestation and your own goals.Β
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I wish I could but she lives in a different state 1500 miles away from me. I am giving her space by not texting or calling bc she asked me too. I have no choice but to give her that now.
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Received wrote:
I wish I could but she lives in a different state 1500 miles away from me. I am giving her space by not texting or calling bc she asked me too. I have no choice but to give her that now.
Okay well space is a really great thing. It heals her and you become your best version of you. One that attracts your love back because you are so aligned with yourself that you are irresistible. You can do this!Β
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Keep your focus on you received. I'm actually kind of in the same situation. Not the same circumstances but the same situation. I know my girl wants to come back to me. People tell me she's lost herself. I've done the work on myself and I feel amazing. Sometimes though I get worked up because I know that if I keep believing she still needs to work on herself then that will perpetuate the reality of her being lost and not knowing how to come back. Just take a deep breath step back and tell yourself if there is a will there is a way. Do something to make you feel incredible because from there you can and will be in vibration for exactly what you want.
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Alycat1110 wrote:
Received wrote:
I wish I could but she lives in a different state 1500 miles away from me. I am giving her space by not texting or calling bc she asked me too. I have no choice but to give her that now.
Okay well space is a really great thing. It heals her and you become your best version of you. One that attracts your love back because you are so aligned with yourself that you are irresistible. You can do this!Β
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With Thanksgiving coming up do you think I should text her "I am thinking of you and I hope this day treats you kind, I am still here for you"..?
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InLakEsch wrote:
Keep your focus on you received. I'm actually kind of in the same situation. Not the same circumstances but the same situation. I know my girl wants to come back to me. People tell me she's lost herself. I've done the work on myself and I feel amazing. Sometimes though I get worked up because I know that if I keep believing she still needs to work on herself then that will perpetuate the reality of her being lost and not knowing how to come back. Just take a deep breath step back and tell yourself if there is a will there is a way. Do something to make you feel incredible because from there you can and will be in vibration for exactly what you want.
I feel the same way as you, I am ready to have this manifestation, I have worked on myself gotten myself into a really great place both professionally and personally and then yesterday I heard that my Love is lonely and depressed. So I felt like he was ready energetically and now this. So I don't know what to do other than continue sending him love. Right?Β
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With Thanksgiving coming up do you think I should text her "I am thinking of you and I hope this day treats you kind, I am still here for you"..?
If your intuition is telling you to text her then text her. I also advise that you are doing this from a loving and happy place within yourself. Especially if you are breaking no contact. Her response will be to your vibration so if you aren't ready don't do it, but if you are she will text back.Β