Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Ladyoflight wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Resistance comes into play a lot I've noticed, the guy I mentioned started getting cold towards me, so I went with the "this or something better" logic it seems, he came around and we dated for 2 years. When you intentionally set out to do something and you're aware of the process a lot more resistance comes into play, you don't want the people you're manifesting but they are picking up on what you're putting out there, so the one you want is picking up on it too. It just seems to take more time to get into a place where you like the person but can live without them. 

Yes, that makes sense. Id like to think he is picking up on it too. I am feeling better within my self as I was a hot mess when we parted ways. My resistance is shifting but its obvious that its not totally gone otherwise he would be physically here with me instead of just  in my mind.
The ex I mentioned is my sons father so I have a longer history with him than the one I am currently attracting back...the weird thing is that he currently has a girlfriend...so...no idea whats going on there lol

How long have you been attracting this one back? Its been around a month for me.
 

4 months but in all honestly I wasn't even in the right place to bring him back until recently. I've manifested him back before and that took just over a month but back then I had a lot less resistance and fears than I currently do. When I'm in the right place he'll call, text, send me a message somehow. You just can't let fear get in the way, it set me back and pushed him away. This time he'll stay. 

Do you find that it is taking longer because it hurt so much more?  I know that we aren't supposed to talk about the past but I just find this time around after attracting him back once before, I kept flip flopping because my vibration was so far from aligned with myself. It just was so much harder to not be angry, forgive and move on. I mean one day it clicked and I was good all by myself but it took a really long time. 

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Alycat1110 wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

4 months but in all honestly I wasn't even in the right place to bring him back until recently. I've manifested him back before and that took just over a month but back then I had a lot less resistance and fears than I currently do. When I'm in the right place he'll call, text, send me a message somehow. You just can't let fear get in the way, it set me back and pushed him away. This time he'll stay. 

Do you find that it is taking longer because it hurt so much more?  I know that we aren't supposed to talk about the past but I just find this time around after attracting him back once before, I kept flip flopping because my vibration was so far from aligned with myself. It just was so much harder to not be angry, forgive and move on. I mean one day it clicked and I was good all by myself but it took a really long time. 

The first breakup he just went quiet, so I told myself he loved me and was afraid of that. He came back and told me he fell in love with me and he thought he'd ruin it. Just as I thought. The second time he just told me he couldn't do it anymore, this was after me fearing it'd happen. So that's another set of obstacles I had to come to terms with. He's mine, I know this. Just need to get over that part and stop stalking him online. 
 

I know you can do it! It really motivates and sometimes frustrates me when I know I am the one standing in my own way. The hardest part is already done and that was desiring him once again after he broke things off. I sometimes just visualize the resistance leaving my body and I feel great. Maybe that might help you too. And also, with social media maybe do a cleanse? I got so much more out of no contact by just stopping all forms of communication with family and friends, I left all chat groups I went cold turkey and it was so helpful and healing. 

Are you doing a lot of visualization to attract him back?..

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Alycat1110 wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

4 months but in all honestly I wasn't even in the right place to bring him back until recently. I've manifested him back before and that took just over a month but back then I had a lot less resistance and fears than I currently do. When I'm in the right place he'll call, text, send me a message somehow. You just can't let fear get in the way, it set me back and pushed him away. This time he'll stay. 

Do you find that it is taking longer because it hurt so much more?  I know that we aren't supposed to talk about the past but I just find this time around after attracting him back once before, I kept flip flopping because my vibration was so far from aligned with myself. It just was so much harder to not be angry, forgive and move on. I mean one day it clicked and I was good all by myself but it took a really long time. 

The first breakup he just went quiet, so I told myself he loved me and was afraid of that. He came back and told me he fell in love with me and he thought he'd ruin it. Just as I thought. The second time he just told me he couldn't do it anymore, this was after me fearing it'd happen. So that's another set of obstacles I had to come to terms with. He's mine, I know this. Just need to get over that part and stop stalking him online. 
 

I not only social media stalked my love...I also checked whether or not he was online on whatsapp too but then I did this thing whereby I would wonder who the frig he was chatting to thus making me feel pretty shitty. I dont do that as much anymore but I seriously do need to stop that crap PERIOD

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