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I want our relationship to remain well rounded. So, I alternate the scenes. 1 night is very intimate and the next night could be a scene of having dinner together.
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I've started reading Pussy Whip by Lanie Stevens, right now I'm just having him say what I want him to hear, all good stuff, though, This makes me feel good and I genuinely find myself sneaking away to practice these sessions more because they bring me joy!
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PW is what I use too. I alternate between it and BWD.
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I have Kindle Unlimited so I might borrow that book and alternate between the two. How is BWD working out for you?
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BWD is keeping things balanced the way that I want. We're discussing one of his hobbies which is what we plan to do for our date this week. It isn't just romance talk.
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This gave me so much motivation!!! Good for you!!! Can I ask though.. what kind of things do you imagine him sayin during BWD? I never know what to hear him say lol
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We've had our first date since he has re entered my life, where he will stay!!!! :D The date was closer to my apology visualizations. A lot was explained and talked through. The Universe fixed things. Now, we're good to go.
During BWD, I imagine him saying "I really care about you." "No woman has made me feel this way." "this was fun" "i like being around you." "I will text you really soon" When I have him making the text comment, I normally have myself leaving and actually visualize him sending the text with what I would want it to say.
It really depends on the scene and what I would like him to say.
Last edited by Avaelle (11/22/2016 8:31 am)
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Haha I love your updates.. I'm sending so much positive energy your way coz I feel excited as I read!!
& thank you for responding about the BWD.. although I thought BWD was supposed to be sexual? lol I imagine the love things during PW ...lol I dunno just trying to understand lol haha
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I'm sorry, you're right. I've mixed the names up. The comments from above is what I use for PW. For BWD, I have him saying things like "this feels great." "you're so good at this" "you are so sexy" . Things like that.
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Now, it is like he is losing it. The other night he was positive that I was with another man. He kept trying to catch me.
Is this a normal stage?