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How do you cope with having impatience? I have a very bad habit where I ask for something and I really do believe in it and that it will happen, but overtime I lack the patience for it and I know I have to work on this inner struggle but I don't know where to start? Any advice? Thanks guys!
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I know exactly how you feel! Things like time and distance are only important though if you let them be. The universe doesn't care how big or small something is, we're the ones who put emphasis on these things. You could manifest something instantly if you're aligned with it that way, it could take 10 seconds, 10 minutes, 10 months and so on. This is how I'm starting to deal with this type of stuff. It's yours anyway, so just get into the swing of things and take comfort in that fact!ย
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
I know exactly how you feel! Things like time and distance are only important though if you let them be. The universe doesn't care how big or small something is, we're the ones who put emphasis on these things. You could manifest something instantly if you're aligned with it that way, it could take 10 seconds, 10 minutes, 10 months and so on. This is how I'm starting to deal with this type of stuff. It's yours anyway, so just get into the swing of things and take comfort in that fact!ย
How do I exactly "let it be"? I'm a bit confused on what you mean there? Like don't think about it?
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It means you don't cling and get too attached to the outcome because when you do that you're putting emphasis on lack. Put emphasis on lack and you wind up with more lack, then you'll think of lack again and get more lack. It's a whole cycle we can live without.ย
One of my favourite ways of looking it at is thinking of it as an order at a restaurant, you place your order and sit and do stuff to pass the time, talk to friends, have a drink stuff like that. You don't chase the cook down every 5 minutes and ask "Oh is this really coming?" and you wouldn't stop other members of staff and ask "Is there anything I can do to speed this up?". You'll get what you ordered, it's just about knowing it's already yours then not getting so attached to the hows, the whys, the whens of the situation because that's ย you getting in your own way and that's honestly no fun. ย Change is always happening, it's just not always visible. Like grass growing, it just flows naturally. ย I hope this makes sense, I'm prone to going on tangets and rambling.ย
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
It means you don't cling and get too attached to the outcome because when you do that you're putting emphasis on lack. Put emphasis on lack and you wind up with more lack, then you'll think of lack again and get more lack. It's a whole cycle we can live without.ย
One of my favourite ways of looking it at is thinking of it as an order at a restaurant, you place your order and sit and do stuff to pass the time, talk to friends, have a drink stuff like that. You don't chase the cook down every 5 minutes and ask "Oh is this really coming?" and you wouldn't stop other members of staff and ask "Is there anything I can do to speed this up?". You'll get what you ordered, it's just about knowing it's already yours then not getting so attached to the hows, the whys, the whens of the situation because that's ย you getting in your own way and that's honestly no fun. ย Change is always happening, it's just not always visible. Like grass growing, it just flows naturally. ย I hope this makes sense, I'm prone to going on tangets and rambling.ย
I get what you mean now and I like what you said about change is happening but it's just not always visible. What you said eased my worries a little and I'm starting to understand a bit better. It's crazy how LOA can move people and situations to bring you what you want. I will work harder on my patience and learn to relax more. I always know in my heart that what's mine is mine and it's coming but the lack of patience kills it
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When you really get that reality is just the reflection of your consciousness, you don't need patience, because you can live everything now in your mind. You can see what you want to see, you can feel what you want to feel NOW. Why would you ever need patience?
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Sanshi wrote:
When you really get that reality is just the reflection of your consciousness, you don't need patience, because you can live everything now in your mind. You can see what you want to see, you can feel what you want to feel NOW. Why would you ever need patience?
So it can happen in my current reality, so shouldn't I wait for LOA to deliver my desire?
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Aisha wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
When you really get that reality is just the reflection of your consciousness, you don't need patience, because you can live everything now in your mind. You can see what you want to see, you can feel what you want to feel NOW. Why would you ever need patience?
So it can happen in my current reality, so shouldn't I wait for LOA to deliver my desire?
Waiting brings always more waiting. It can't really happen in your current reality, because you can't really change your reality. You can only shift in a different one in which it is already so and you can access that reality now in your imagination.
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Abraham says that having patience is a display of showing you are in misalignment with yourself. Patient for what? You should already by acting as if! That was a huge eye opener for me because I had so many people in my dreams, on website, etc telling me I had to have patience. But that just allowed resistance to build up until I was like WTF? I feel like **** but not about my manifestation but about myself. My head ached. Try EFT technique if you are feeling impatient or resistance and be deliberate about it! It will really help.