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Sanshi wrote:
Amen! We need more sunny here.
Haha thanks! 😁
Avaelle wrote:
Are affirmations pretty much the way to handle negative thoughts? For example, if something happens and someone in my life is gone - I always internalize it. It really doesn't help my attraction if I am beating myself up.
You're right, it doesn't help your attraction if you are beating yourself up. You need to show yourself love and forgiveness - then and only then will you be able to attract what you want. You can use affirmations if you choose.
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I completed a RS last night. But, this time - I went into it with a new attitude. My thoughts were that I was doing it because it felt good and that's it's my line of communication with my guy until we're back speaking on the phone which will be soon. :-)
I dreamed about him afterwards. Are dreams a form of communication?
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I shouldn't watch his social media. I know. It only opens the door for me to see something that I will try to figure out and react to. It opens the door to allow negative thoughts in. I peeked this morning though and actually saw that he was active on something. So, he didn't just leave social media or anything like that. It was actually great to know this. I look at in a positive way. I like knowing that I was blocked/unfriended. It shows that he's emotional about me and is on the way. Now, back to my day.
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Well, he is in contact with me.
Avaelle wrote:
Well, he is in contact with me.
Its great!!! More details please:D
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I used to have problems with internalizing things. In turn, I think that drove my guy away. I started the RS and visualizations and would get frustrated because I hadn't spoken to him for weeks on end. Then, as you know he unfriended me out of the blue.
I finally just started to relax, thought of the visualizations as dates instead of trying to get him. I smile randomly because it feels good, think positive and am nice to people. I just put my mind in the space that he is already my boyfriend. Yesterday was great. First, I won a contest.
Then, yesterday I heard from him. He has been texting and calling me. I just put my mind in the place that he is already my boyfriend and I carried the conversation like that. Meaning I treat him how I would if he were my boyfriend. We are working on the details for a date. It's so interesting because one of my visualizations we were married and we were trying to figure out how to have both our famillies see the kids during the holidays and I mentioned something to him about flying instead of driving. He always drives to see his family but is going to fly this time. I just thought that part was cool.
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I had also started Veronica's book this week. I also started back writing my grateful list. At the end of each night, I write down 5 things from the day that I"m grateful for and I write down anything from the day that made me laugh. It conditions me to remain in great and positive mood.
Avaelle wrote:
I had also started Veronica's book this week. I also started back writing my grateful list. At the end of each night, I write down 5 things from the day that I"m grateful for and I write down anything from the day that made me laugh. It conditions me to remain in great and positive mood.
And did you rs still or when he unfriended you so you stopped did rs?
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I continued to RS when I was unfriended. Instead of thinking " i need to do this so that he will add me back" , I did it with the mindset that I couldn't wait to spend time with him because it felt amazing. That it was our time together.
And when you do RS so what you imagine? Just kissing, hugging or some sexual things too?