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Should i meet him?
Hey guys
My sister is planning a surprise party for her boyfriend and she invited friends of her boyfriend, also my lover because her boyfriend and my ex are friends. So he may be there.. I dont know if i am ready so see him.. I havent seen him for almost 5 months, he left me for his ex girlfriend and they seem very happy right now.
What do you guys think ? Should i go and just be friendly to him? Of Should i just stay home and wait for him to come back to me ?
Xx love
- happygirl97
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Re: Should i meet him?
If you feel bad about it and you do not feel ready, do not go.
If you feel good and confident in yourself you can do it 
She believed she could, so she did.
- Havefaith91
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i would advise what happygirl said. if it makes you feel good, go for it! also i don't think it's wise to as you put it waiting for him. If you are in the reality of waiting for him that is where you will stay. you have to be in the reality of already having him back if that is what you desire.
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
- Sasusaku
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The probleem is, i really dont know.. I dont feel bad about it, i visualize without knowing that i see him, and i look good and he is staring at me.. But i just dont know.. I dont know what i can do to actually know The anwser if i Should go or not
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Thread Starter- Alycat1110
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You have to take the should out of it and really just look deep inside and see what your intuition is telling you. Remember him being with his ex is an obstacle. Really evaluate where you are with yourself and and make your decision from there. Remember to put yourself first, it's okay to say no to things that you feel are just not right or to say yes if you feel it too. Don't allow yourself to lower your vibration and force yourself into it
- Havefaith91
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if you can get to a place where you will be fine no matter what happens, then go!! after all, it is a party you should have fun. some people can't get to that place, they will get discouraged and it will set them back because they will end up too focused on this reality not the one they are creating and in turn their manifestation takes longer. i wish you the best either way
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
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Re: Should i meet him?
Sasusaku wrote:
The probleem is, i really dont know.. I dont feel bad about it, i visualize without knowing that i see him, and i look good and he is staring at me.. But i just dont know.. I dont know what i can do to actually know The anwser if i Should go or not
If it isn't a "HELL YES!" I wouldn't go. Chances are that it will be a setback.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- mave
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Good point!
That's usually my litmus test...if I even have to ask, then it's usually a big fat no!
- Jovana
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If you are asking someone... That answer must be only yours. Meditate, relax and let your feeling be the answer. Nobody know what you feel.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com