1 of 1- AerinLR
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Motivation please :)
The first time I posted in this forum, I did attract my love back however the necessary lessons for me to maintain the relationship fell along the wayside. To catch up to speed, I promised myself that doing this journey with my entire heart in it this time around, I want to be the source of someone's motivation to let them know this is really possible, that like Veronica says, no situation is impossible. I started this journey 14 days ago and last week Saturday, I had a manifestation. He called me *though intoxicated* exclaiming his love for me. I tried my best to avoid reading too much into it and getting my hopes up. We spoke a few days out of the week, one 11 minute conversation really stood out because it was him just being his usual self excited about work and eager to tell me his plans. The last I spoke to him was on Friday, granted very brief conversation but for some reason hearing the term 'honey' gave me butterflies. I am not sure if he said it out of habit but now I am kind of down. I have not heard from him since, a part of me really hoped that he would ask me to meet up and I feel so close yet so far. I know they say low moments are normal and I really just need a reminder that this is not a hopeless situation. . I look forward to the support from here.
PS I have been reading this amazing book also by Thea Marie and she has a wonderful blog post on this subject:
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Re: Motivation please :)
You can't look at the reflection and hope that it will change without you changing. You have to change first. What you are doing right now is you think thoughts, they manifest, you look at the manifestation and feel bad. You look at your own painting and think about how terrible it is. You don't have to change the painting, just draw a new one on a different canvas and in the colors you like and you won't feel down ever again.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- zionthecomedian
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Re: Motivation please :)
If you attracted him before. Why can't you do it again is what I've learnt.
If he phoned you once, he will phone again and again and again if you think positively.
Don't get hooked onto it. Maybe he's busy. Give him time to miss you and love you more.
I mean he already called you and you already had conversations. Don't see why that can't happen again. 
I thank the universe for everything.
- AerinLR
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Thank you so much guys. I believe the danger sets in when we get fitted on a certain expectation, but I will continue to trust and believe
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Thread Starter- Alycat1110
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Re: Motivation please :)
AerinLR wrote:
Thank you so much guys. I believe the danger sets in when we get fitted on a certain expectation, but I will continue to trust and believe
If I am feeling expectant or resistance then what helps me out is watching videos especially Abe. It really helps me to get out of my funk. What I've really learned is everything negative I feel in my mind. It lives there. It's a heavy burden but we don't need to get attached to it or feel fear around it because it isn't real. Instead expect great things happiness for yourself and your love.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com