ughchristina wrote:

So I've been trying to manifest my guy back since Sept. I have been doing pretty well honestly, had a couple times where I broke down but I ended up bringing my vibration back up afterwards. But today I realized. I am happy by myself. I don't need him to make me happy. I could do perfectly fine without him. However I still do know we will get back together and I will manifest, because I still do want him, but I've let the outcome go. I don't feel the need to visualize or RS anymore. I only think of him when he just pops in my mind. I just trust and know the universe will bring him back. Like a kid before Christmas, knowing that they will find the present they want under that tree, or like waiting for your food to come in a resturant. They know it's coming. I just got the overwhelming feeling of "I am fine, I don't need him". I'm taking this as a good thing! Good vibes to everyone!

Sometimes I feel like this too. And then I believe that he is going to call and Just like Veronica says, have your phone charged, believe, etc. So when it doesn't happen I've become too attached to the outcome when I haven't been before you know? Did you ever feel like this?
 

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Focused on me, played video games, went for walks, drank water, spend time with friends, absolutely great stuff. Got to the point I was sat there thinking "You know what? I don't care, I know my worth and I don't need anybody to make me happy", ordered food and sat downstairs watching shows on Comedy Central, my phone went off and there he was, the apology I wanted and him back in my life. Wasn't how I initally expected it to be but it's not always going to play out the way you expect it to. 

That's how I feel most days. Sometimes I'm so grateful that this break came about because it gives me a chance to get to know the real me again. Then I hang out with friends, go out, even just watching movies by myself is enjoyable and I think who cares if he comes back. I kind of like being in the place because it doesn't matter in that moment and I am the best version of myself. 
 

ughchristina wrote:

Alycat1110 wrote:

ughchristina wrote:

So I've been trying to manifest my guy back since Sept. I have been doing pretty well honestly, had a couple times where I broke down but I ended up bringing my vibration back up afterwards. But today I realized. I am happy by myself. I don't need him to make me happy. I could do perfectly fine without him. However I still do know we will get back together and I will manifest, because I still do want him, but I've let the outcome go. I don't feel the need to visualize or RS anymore. I only think of him when he just pops in my mind. I just trust and know the universe will bring him back. Like a kid before Christmas, knowing that they will find the present they want under that tree, or like waiting for your food to come in a resturant. They know it's coming. I just got the overwhelming feeling of "I am fine, I don't need him". I'm taking this as a good thing! Good vibes to everyone!

Sometimes I feel like this too. And then I believe that he is going to call and Just like Veronica says, have your phone charged, believe, etc. So when it doesn't happen I've become too attached to the outcome when I haven't been before you know? Did you ever feel like this?
 

I used to feel like this sometimes as well when I was expecting him to call or text. But now I've learned that the universe has a specific time and way that we will get back in contact, and get back together. So even if It doesn't happen now, I just trust, knowing that the universe will bring it when it's the right time! Good luck, and happy vibes to you!

The thing is I know the same thing. I think one of the greatest lessons that LOA teaches us is patience. Now I have never been good at this so I think I'm just being squirmy. But hot damn, sometimes trusting is the hardest part. Sometimes I feel like I couldn't do anything without my love. For example, I was so against watching Christmas movies because I know it would put me into the Christmas mood and currently (in this reality) my Love is not here. But I said EFF it, I'm not letting this dictate my happiness, there is over a month until Christmas there is PLENTY of time for the Universe to deliver I'm watching Christmas movies. I've watched 3 so far and there is no resistance around it! I don't know if its relevant at all but I felt like saying it lol. 

Alycat1110 wrote:

The thing is I know the same thing. I think one of the greatest lessons that LOA teaches us is patience.

I don't tell you this, because I want to pick on you, but because that could be something that is holding you back. If patience is still an issue for you, you haven't fully understood how LoA works. Patience implies a vibration of waiting and that's what you get more of. But you know that you can live every reality now, that you can feel every feeling you want now. So why do you even have to be patient? Only because you still think that reality is somehow better and more real than your imagination. It really isn't. It's a mere reflection and couldn't be less real.