Ok. You know how you miss him, it hurts, ur feeling so so bad, you want him back, it's awful, it's horrible....? Right. I get that. I really do. I've experienced those feelings before. The EXACT SAME feelings. And I said the same as you. Over and over again. "It doesn't work, I still feel bad and sad and blah blah blah..." So LOA had no other option but to give me more sadness. And in fact, not only did I miss my guy, but my mom died. Like, she DIED. DEAD. GONE. FOREVER. And then I was REALLY TERRIBLY UPSET.

And here's the point of my story. I used my focus to stop thinking bad thoughts. I did it every minute of every day. EVERY THOUGHT. I stopped writing how sad I was. I stopped saying it. I stopped thinking those thoughts and instead said "I can do this. I'm a powerful creator." The first day I only felt good for a few seconds. Then I was miserable again. So I did it again and again, swapping my bad thoughts. Saying instead "No, I CAN DO THIS. IM A POWERFUL CREATOR." And a day later, I received a gift. It was unexpected! I was grateful. I began to see that being grateful was good. So I looked around me. I had a house. A  comfy bed to sleep in. A car. Money. Lots of lovely clothes and possessions. I really was very lucky. I let that gratitude sink in. And when bad thoughts came, I said "NO! I can DO THIS! I'm a powerful creator!" And I felt better. And LOA showed me more to be grateful about. And my life surely got better and better every day. And don't skip my whole story and ask "yea but did you get your guy back?!" Last night he told me that I am the love of his life. So yes, he's back. But THAT IS NOT THE POINT. Is my mom back? Well.. I'm not THAT magnificent a creator yet! 😂 Or am i? Because I don't miss her anymore. I FEEL HER. I manifest her every day and I am joyously happy thinking about her!

You have the chance to do the same, but you're doing it ALL WRONG. Wrong, wrong, wrong! You have to turn your focus TOTALLY on what you DO want. And keep doing that. Every moment. Of course it won't feel real at first! But this time keep going! Stop talking about it failing. Because what if, WHAT IF.. In a few short days it begins to work?!

Yea cherished, loa really did give me more sadness this morning. I said I felt bad and so on then I went to school. But my car suddenly broke down in the middle of the road. My phone can't call out either. I felt terrible. I was alone. I felt helpless at that moment. This is what I manifested for this morning. I'm curious. Why do we attract the bad easily and instantly but the goods?

Baby_r wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Yea cherished, loa really did give me more sadness this morning. I said I felt bad and so on then I went to school. But my car suddenly broke down in the middle of the road. My phone can't call out either. I felt terrible. I was alone. I felt helpless at that moment. This is what I manifested for this morning. I'm curious. Why do we attract the bad easily and instantly but the goods?

Because you focus more on the "bad" things than the things that make you feel good and are positive. Shift your thoughts, and your experiences will change too for the better 😊
Its all in the mind!

 
Hey babyr,
    Yea. I imagined us got back. I feel the joy and so on.  (love) But when I'm visualising, the evidence of him not loving me anymore keeps popping up in my mind. What can I do when that happens?

Please know that I'm saying this with the best of intentions.

Am I surprised to read this?! YES!! Because I thought you would have an awesome day? Ansolutely not. You were going to have a bad day. You'd already told all of us that. But I AM surprised to see that you have decided to discuss it with everyone. Creating MORE of it for yourself in the future. Why?

Because Ive never ever seen you write about good things, I'm also assuming you aren't THINKING about good things. So you manifest bad things. It makes perfect sense. You know what? I manifest REALLY GOOD THINGS! And occasionally some not so good things if I become lazy and I get sloppy in my thinking. And do I talk to you guys about it? ABSOLUTELY NOT! Why? Because I know I'm a deliberate creator and every single thing I think or say will eventually create the vibration and therefore reality that I later experience. So why on earth would I do that? I focus instead on what I can do, which is control my mind RIGHT NOW. Perhaps this seems harsh, but we are practicing LOA here, and you continually practice the exact opposite. At least everyone else reading this will be able to see and u der stand very clearly what continually thinking negative thoughts will do! What is your next step?

Bravo!! This is a fantastic place to start.

So what are you going to do to raise your vibration?
Have you read the resources I sent?
What processes are you working with to train your thoughts?