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This or something better...
I am curious what people believe because sometimes there are terms like "this or something better" or "meant to be" in various threads and I know that I believe that this or something better is the relationship with my Love being great or being amazing. It is subjective?
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There is really nothing like meant to be. When you are in the right vibration, it's meant to be. When you change your vibration, it isn't longer meant to be..lol.
I agree fully with Sam. "Something better" is for people who don't trust in their ability to attract a specific person.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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There was a time where just hearing that would send my fear into overdrive. But I was just beginning to learn my own power. It totally makes sense! Thanks guys for answering 
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Alycat1110 wrote:
There was a time where just hearing that would send my fear into overdrive. But I was just beginning to learn my own power. It totally makes sense! Thanks guys for answering
It was the same for me. It's completely up to our vibration how we interpret this little sentence and from a lower vibration, it looks scary and disempowering.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Everyone believes in different things.
With the whole "whats meant to be will be" i personal believe in god. I know that he has had a plan for my life since before i was born. He knows who is meant for me and who isnt. I know and believe in my heart that me and my ex are going to be married. And this journey in this life is no where near over. I look at this break as part of the journey. Us growing as people separately. And yes she is with someone else right now but that is temporary. So i know that no matter what happens this is my life partner and this is the woman thats for me and im for her.
It honestly is all about your belief.
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I was wondering this tonight, I slipped back into old habits and wound up undoing what I worked on. Saw that phrase and panicked. I think I need to take some time to calm myself down and regain my thoughts. Thanks for the insight.
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Everyone believes in different things.
With the whole "whats meant to be will be" i personal believe in god. I know that he has had a plan for my life since before i was born. He knows who is meant for me and who isnt. I know and believe in my heart that me and my ex are going to be married. And this journey in this life is no where near over. I look at this break as part of the journey. Us growing as people separately. And yes she is with someone else right now but that is temporary. So i know that no matter what happens this is my life partner and this is the woman thats for me and im for her.
It honestly is all about your belief.
I totally understand what you mean. At the end of the day regardless of what Higher Power you believe in, it always comes down to how much do you believe in your own power to make your deepest dreams and desires come true. In this reality I'm on a break with my love too and I believe that we needed the space to grow as well because there was something that was keeping me from being the best version of myself and now that I feel better I know he is right around the corner. Keep your faith! It is really inspiring.
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I was wondering this tonight, I slipped back into old habits and wound up undoing what I worked on. Saw that phrase and panicked. I think I need to take some time to calm myself down and regain my thoughts. Thanks for the insight.
Do you really believe that you put enough feelings into your negative thoughts, that it is completely undone everything you have worked so hard for? I read a lot about having good days and bad days and even though our first thought is to get scared and allow the fear to come back because of old patterns but it is just a bad day, it is not going to affect everything that you have worked so hard for. No need to panic especially because I read so many of your posts and you have such a great positive attitude!
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I am curious what people believe because sometimes there are terms like "this or something better" or "meant to be" in various threads and I know that I believe that this or something better is the relationship with my Love being great or being amazing. It is subjective?
In some books I read about manifesting a specific person, they say when you say "this or something better" that is showing the Universe that you are not attached to the outcome....that you are open for any possibility. just expanding more to help bring your person back.
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I was wondering this tonight, I slipped back into old habits and wound up undoing what I worked on. Saw that phrase and panicked. I think I need to take some time to calm myself down and regain my thoughts. Thanks for the insight.
Do you really believe that you put enough feelings into your negative thoughts, that it is completely undone everything you have worked so hard for? I read a lot about having good days and bad days and even though our first thought is to get scared and allow the fear to come back because of old patterns but it is just a bad day, it is not going to affect everything that you have worked so hard for. No need to panic especially because I read so many of your posts and you have such a great positive attitude!
I've taken the time to calm down now, got too caught up with reality and wound myself up. I'm a little too hard on myself and I should probably take my own advice. Still learning, though. Thanks for the kind words, they mean a lot!
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